Why is it that experienced American women are so sympathetic to YOUNG (who have a choice) women who wear scarf

Question

This world is so different today. Men are so fickle sometimes. Life is very precarious. A woman is lucky if shy finds love for a number of years before something gets in the way or things do not go perfectly. Men can be arrogant and when they become so, it is so nice to be independent and have a defense (such as you can put on something sexy and go to a bar to determine if you are still desirable), because otherwise who knows what pernicious and ineffable events would otherwise unfold. Sometimes, I can't imagine how couples coexist, especially in the modern age, when so much inequity exists between the sexes. Independence is deeply important, especially to Western culture. Are there any experienced Muslim women who are brave enough to respond? Hindu women? Christian women? Athiest women? If so, please do.

Answer 1

Everything depends on attitude and environment. Though I completely agree that everyone should be independent and should be able to sustain herself/ himself.

However being alone for the sake of being alone or because of something wrong happened sometime or we could not adjust with some one is not what I feel is correct.

Like all fingers are not equal, all people are of not of the same nature, so if we could not adjust with one, may be our chemistry matches with second one.

Again it is always a very nice feeling and there is a totally different life when you are with our partner then alone (off course compatible partner).

So I will summarize saying that one incident or one person is not end of life and it is good to be independent but it is really great to be together.

Answer 2

It's a sad situation in the west. The girls who hang out in the bars tryin to be 'desirable' are the problem. they are always accesssable so the men in the realtionships know that and they don't take the woman they're with serious.

My husband and I have a balanced realtionship.
He works and I don't. I keep the house clean, dinner on th table, take care of bills, and what ever else we need i our lives, hangout with my friends go shopping do what makes me happy.

He makes the money to pay for bills, groceries, gas in my car and anything I want and need.

I know where he will be at the end of the day. In our home woth me watching films and spending time toghther.

in the west both work so it's always a stress and a race to do it all so that stress goes into the realtionships. it's a case of too much to do in too litle time