ans her husband seems great from what I see from the outside. She says she cheats because he doesn't give her enough attention...but they have sex VERY OFTEN! What is wrong with her? I am to the point where I can't stand to look at her. But we have been friends for years and feel bad deserting her. What should I do? She calls me daily to tell me her cheating stories...
2006-08-09 16:23:52 · 10 answers · asked by misty_28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oops! typo I meant affairs on HER husband!
2006-08-09 16:24:30 · update #1
Ouch. That's a personal decision for you to make. Some people will over look their friend's flaws. A lot of them. I do. I don't know that I could with things as bad as she is doing though. If you're ok with having someone around that has such thin moral fiber since it doesn't really involve you.. then.. just stick around. Don't do anything. It doesn't sound like you're ok with this though. I wouldn't be, so I don't blame you. I'm not saying never talk to her again.. but were I you, I'd distance myself from her. Maybe it'd even be an awakening when one day she calls you up and asks how come you two haven't talked for a couple of weeks and you tell her it's because you can't stand the way she treats her husband with the constant adultery. Good luck in whatever decision you make.
2006-08-09 16:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is your friend, and friends care for each other. If this behavior is upsetting you, she should know about it. Even if she keeps cheating on him, you should ask her not to tell you. Let her know how you feel about this. Let her know you can not stand that behavior on her part, because you feel like promoting cheating and you are against that. she will then make a decision, either keep cheating and not telling or loose you as a friend.
Tough love is tough, but sometimes very much needed.
2006-08-09 16:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simple tell her how you feel and that you do not agree with what she is doing. It is wrong to commit adultery. Just tell her you do not want to hear about her affairs anymore because you do not agree. If she gets mad oh well she should feel like crap cheating.
2006-08-09 16:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she doesn't get enough attention, then that is HER CALL! You aren't w/ them 24/7, so you can't really judge her motives. BUT......if you don't wanna hear about it, or if you are tired of hearing about it, then tell her that. Because otherwise you will probably just end up avoiding her conversations, and it will affect your relationship w/ her.
2006-08-09 16:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and she has no remorse of what she is doing that is a crying shame she is just plain out selfish if i was getting my sex every day what in the **** do i look like going to cheat on him for when i can always come home to my boo i don't need no outside dick when mines in at home wanting for me
2006-08-09 16:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about getting away from her, she has no loyalty. You should find a different friend. I'm surprised you've put up with her this long.
2006-08-09 16:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can be truthful and simple asd ask her why? and tell her you were just concerned, otherwise. stay out of it, maybe there are other problems that she doesnt discuss with you because she is embarrassed. You never know.
2006-08-09 16:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her don't freakin call u about something you don't care to hear about. She gotta respect your wishes.There's nothing you can do to stop her, trust me what goes around come around. just tell her to leave you out of it.
2006-08-09 16:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have no self pride? if i had friends who cheated on their spouses or significant others , i would totally lose respect. i cant believe your still friends with her, screw her feelings. get new friends
2006-08-09 16:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just a sexfiend, very promiscuous and she just can't be with one man.
2006-08-09 16:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋