Recently I met one girl who is much younger than me. She comes to me with a respect and love a elderly person deserves. I also try to reciprocate in same manner But in my mind there is always a conflict and sexy thoughts about her come in my mind. I try not to think about her but find very difficult to forget her. How to get rid of this?
2006-08-09 16:22:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You at times feel sexy towards her and next moment also feel that you should not have such feelings for her due to age difference. It is O.K. It is the conflict between the animal instinct and the human ethics within you. You should restrain your animal instinct and see a daughter in her, and behave like an uncle. You are basically a nice person that is why such conflicts occur in the mind.
2006-08-09 16:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must analyze the situation a little deeper. Is this girl 18+? Is it bad is the two of you were together. Personally, I don't think age matter for love. My dad is 20 years older than my Mon. Is it's just impossible for you to be with her. Then, think of her as family, maybe a daughter of a cousin. Focus on other qualities of her besides her beauty; like her intelligence or even bad things about her (everything goes). Avoid being with her in "hard situations". If you can anticipate the day you're going to see her, try to plan the situation, so that is won't be compromising and NOT sexy at all. Hope I helped!
2006-08-09 23:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by LatinAfro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of a huge black guy taking you from behind in prison. You're in there for sleeping with a minor.
2006-08-09 23:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by trafficer21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus ur mind n thots to somethin else or pray very hard to avoid al the bad thots
2006-08-09 23:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK ITS JUST AN INFATUATION .
IF ITS NOT ,TRY TO KNOW ABOUT HER FEELINGS, IF SHE IS AN ADULT AND COMES TO U OFTEN MIGHT BE SHE LIKES U.TO AVOID HER THOUGHTS,CONCENTRATE ON THE THINGS WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HER IN YOUR LIFE.
2006-08-10 02:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much younger??? like 12 or something? then you should go hang yourself. but if she's an adult, maybe she like you too!!! maybe that's why she's always coming around. you never know.
2006-08-09 23:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is underage, you need to stop right there. Start telling her that you are busy and can not see her as often.
2006-08-09 23:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by DISCOVERI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her as your own Daughter
2006-08-09 23:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by btmac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIRECTLY ASK THE GIRL WHAT SHE FEELS ABOUT YOU.
AND JUST SPEND A HOUR ALONE AND TAKE YOUR OWN DESSICION
2006-08-12 00:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself you are a dirty old thing. That fill fix you!
2006-08-10 02:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋