I'm an Aquarius....?

Question

How does play into the relationships and interactions (both plutonic and romantic) I have with others?

Answer 1

Aquarius
January 20 - February 18

Aquarius is the eleventh Sign of the Zodiac, and Aquarians are the perfect representatives for the Age of Aquarius. Those born under this Sign have the social conscience needed to carry us into the new millennium. These folks are humanitarian, philanthropic and keenly interested in making the world a better place. Along those lines, they'd like to make the world work better, which is why they focus much of their energy on our social institutions and how they work (or don't work). Aquarians are visionaries, progressive souls who love to spend time thinking about how things can be better. They are also quick to engage others in this process, which is why they have so many friends and acquaintances. Making the world a better place is a collaborative effort for Aquarians. The Sign of Aquarius is symbolized by the Water Bearer. In much the same way that the Water Bearer brings that precious liquid as a gift, Aquarians shower the world with their thoughts and new ideas. Luckily for Aquarians (and the rest of us), they are at a near-genius level, so their minds churn out some amazing things. Their thought process is also inventive and original. While Aquarians are happy to bestow these ideas as a gift with no strings attached, they are much happier when the rest of the world agrees with them. Naysayers will quickly find out that Aquarians can be impatient, even temperamental, with those who disagree. Yes, these folks can be quite fixed in their opinions, in keeping with the Fixed Quality assigned to this Sign. Even though Aquarians are happy to give, and they do, it's often on their terms and within their comfort level. Generally, that means ample space, since these folks are freedom-loving and individualistic and need to roam (and yes, they do enjoy travel). While Aquarians are generally sympathetic and compassionate, they like it when things go their own quirky way. Some might call their behavior eccentric (and they would be right), but when you consider that the Aquarian's heart is truly in the right place, a few oddities should be overlooked. In their own way, Aquarians treasure their many friends and acquaintances and want to give back as much as they can.
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AQUARIUS AND ARIES
This is definitely a match that will enjoy plenty of fun and adventure. If both sides try a bit of tact & understanding, this great love affair could turn into something special. Temperamentally, these signs are well suited they are both very active, ambitious, enjoy a wide range of interests, and are equally eager for sexual fun. Aquarius's imaginativeness provides Aires's forcefulness a place to play. Sexually, Aires's passion inspires Aquarius's originality. They won't try to tie each other down, for each understands the other's need for freedom, adventure, and outside interests. Neither of these signs like to be dominated, however Aries must take the lead. Depending on their mood, Aquarius may or may not follow the strong Aries lead. Aries individuals find the Aquaria's unpredictability exciting, but never feels entirely secure. If the ego problems can be ironed out to both parties satisfaction, anything is possible, even marriage & family life.

AQUARIUS AND TAURUS
Aquarius's careless attitude toward love will baffle and finally enrage highly passionate Taurus, who doesn't want someone just to play with. Taurus's possessiveness and jealousy make Aquarius anxious to pack a suitcase and go. Aquarius loves to wander anyway, while Taurus loves home. These two are stubborn in very different ways: Aquarius refuses to be conventional, while Taurus rigidly adheres to the values of family and security. Aquarius is interested in humane concerns; Taurus is single minded about itself and its possessions. And so on and on and on.

AQUARIUS AND GEMINI
Gemini is willing to go along with Aquarius's taste for experiment. In addition, Aquarius calms down Gemini's flightiness and is a stabilizing influence. They enjoy each other's quick, intelligent minds and will have fascinating conversations about people, ideas, and places. They love to socialize, they have a wide range of outside activities, and neither is particularly jealous or proprietary They'll be fine bed-mates and fascinating friends.

AQUARIUS AND CANCER
Aquarius bristles at Cancer's possessiveness and can't understand why Cancer won't hang loose. Aquarius is careless and free with affection, making sensitive Cancer feel neglected and rejected. Aquarius hates Cancer's clinging restrictiveness and complaining, which stem from Cancer's constant need for proofs of love. Cancer wants a safe, secure home, but Aquarius needs a very flexible living arrangement. Cancer wants Aquarius to stay, but soon Aquarius is inclined to wander away.

AQUARIUS AND LEO
Leo is delighted by Aquarius's sexual inventiveness, and Aquarius is drawn to Leo's fire and robust zest for living. These two opposites in the zodiac start off on a high note, but then the notes go sour. Basically, Leo is physical and Aquarius is mental. Leo can't get the cooperation or the admiration it requires, and Aquarius resents Leo's attempt to rule. They have different views of independence: to Aquarius it means freedom to explore new horizons; to Leo it means pursuing a glamorous, extravagant lifestyle. Aquarius is interested in the world; Leo is strictly interested in Leo.

AQUARIUS AND VIRGO
Both are mental signs rather than emotional, but Virgo looks on the darker side of life while Aquarius is imaginative and optimistic. Aquarius needs activity, social events, a wide circle of acquaintances. Virgo enjoys a quiet existence with a few close friends. Their goals are very different: Aquarius wants to be as brilliant as possible; Virgo wants to be as efficient as possible. They're compatible intellectually, but won't celebrate many anniversaries.

AQUARIUS AND LIBRA
Warm, sensual Libra joins with enthusiasm in Aquarius's erotic fun and games. Also, diplomatic Libra knows must how to get around Aquarius's quirky stubborn streak. They like the way each other's minds work and share interests in music, theater, and the arts. Both love parties, other people, and have numerous projects in common. There won't be arguments about who leads and who follows because they are both great egalitarians. This should be a lovely affair, but for the long term someone will have to settle down.

AQUARIUS AND SCORPIO
Fueled by Scorpio's volatility and Aquarius's imaginativeness, sex is quite out of the ordinary. But Aquarius is turned off by Scorpio's powerful and jealous passions, and Scorpio is upset by Aquarius's unpredictable moods. Aquarius is looking for a companion in adventure whereas Scorpio wants a committed consort. Aquarius is aloof, unemotional, and restless; Scorpio is demanding, critical, intensely possessive. Aquarius starts looking for happiness outside the home and it might as well keep right on traveling.

AQUARIUS AND SAGITTARIUS
These two are so innovative about lovemaking that they ought to charge admission. In addition, they inspire each other intellectually, for Aquarius has far-out, inventive ideas and Sagittarius is optimistic and visionary. Aquarius can be dogmatic in its libertarian views but that doesn't bother live-and-let-live Sagittarius. Both are highly social, fun-loving creatures who like people, seeing new places, and what-ever is unpredictable. The best part is that neither one is jealous when the other isn't home.

AQUARIUS AND CAPRICORN
Both signs have a strong sense of self, but Aquarius wants to be free and Capricorn wants to dominate. Aquarius has a great many opinions about everything and welcomes neither advice nor orders from rigid Capricorn. Aquarius is continually on the go and likes to spend money. Capricorn considers that frivolous and tries to impose strict controls. Capricorn is cautious, solid, and straightforward, and doesn't understand Aquarius's adventurous ideas. A brief rapport at best before boredom sets in and damps the fire.

AQUARIUS AND AQUARIUS
They admire and like each other, and especially enjoy each other's sense of humor. Inventive, progressive, attracted to the new and unusual, they are sexually suited and share wide-ranging interests. Each is involved in all kinds of projects and friendships. With so many outside activities going, they are likely to be apart as much as they are together and that's fine with them. They haven't a thing to quarrel about since they agree on everything: Both of them are much more rational than emotional. Their love won't be as deep as a well, but it will draw water.

AQUARIUS AND PISCES
Aquarius is intrigued by Pisces' romantic charm and Pisces is drawn to Aquarius's visionary ideals. Sensual, imaginative Pisces will go along with anything Aquarius wants, and they achieve an unusual intimacy. However, things begin to go downhill as Pisces insists or, more and more testaments of love. Dependent, indecisive Pisces needs someone strong to take control. Aquarius shuns any kind of emotional demands. When Aquarius feels hemmed in by that all-enveloping Piscean web, it will struggle free and go its own way.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

Wow, after reading Milly's essay I hope this isn't too brief for you.

Aquarius are generally happy go lucky, great socially and are usually an excellent judge of charater. Therefore, if your instinct tells you that someone isnt being honest or there just isnt something right about a particular person, you should listen to that instinct.

You need to stop worrying so much about family & friends, they are all ok, and live your life to the fullest.

Another great thing about Aquarians is your ability to keep up with the latest fashion & trends and if you ever team up with a Sagitarius your children will be the envy of all their friends for having the coolest parents

Aquarians who have a love for music will be very talented muscians.

Keep away from Scorpios. Other good matches are Taurus, & Libra. Capricorn and Cancer are ok, if you need someone to keep your feet firmly on the ground.

Answer 3

You must look to the whole chart to see what type of people you are attracted to not just your own sun sign and the other person's sun sign.

What aspects do your Sun, Moon and Ascendant make?

The 1st house is you, your personality and appearance..
The 5th house rules love affairs.
The 7th house rules partnerships.
The 8th house rules sexuality.

What planets are in the above houses and what aspects do they make? What signs are those planets in? What sign is on the cusp of those houses? What elements (fire, earth, air & water) and qualities (cardinal, fixed & mutuable) are involved?

For a female's chart you can look to the Sun and Mars and their aspects for what types of males they are attracted to.

For a male's chart you and look to the Moon and Venus and their aspects for what types of females they are attracted to.

Ideal Man for a Woman
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealmanforawoman.html

Ideal Woman for a Man
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/idealwomanforaman.html

Any sign can be with any other sign. It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Answer 4

http://www.findyourfate.com/compatibility/aquarius-compatibility.html