i have been in a lesbian relationship for 1 year and my girl has a very hard time climaxing
2006-08-09 16:12:57 · 20 answers · asked by puertoricancola 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
does she ever do it alone?
ask her what she does on her own time to make it happen. then try doing those things or techniques.
it takes practice. everyone is different.
good luck! keep us updated!!!!
(on another note...please answer my question!! no one has answered and im sad)
2006-08-09 16:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by mervelash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vibration helps... or simply ask her to 'guide' you. Some people have a very hard time telling the other what feels good. Maybe she likes it faster... slower.. different spot. Some reach the big '0' inside, some only outside.
2006-08-09 16:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's still shy to show her emotions. Reassure her that all is ok and you still love her. During love making dont pressure her or comment that she's taking alot of time to climax, it will turn her off for sure. Seduce her with erotic sounds lol,good luck
2006-08-09 19:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by maltese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can she do it herself ? Reason I asked is b/c my hubby cant really do it unless I help out. I know my body better than anyone else. If she is willing to show you exactly how she needs it, that could help.
Also ...sometimes meds make it hard to climax.
2006-08-09 16:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by barbiesworldinsc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi !
Explore into other things .... like sex toys and lotions!
I highly suggest you invest in a dbl bullet vibrator that will get you both at climax in record time.
2006-08-09 17:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweet candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT MAY NOT BE YOU i speak from personal exp i have never had a gasum only because i know that my nerve endings are not how do you say hooked up to anything
and it may be the sex has a feeling of pain and not plesure
2006-08-13 14:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by crazzykid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she on any antidepressants? this will effect many many people sexually. if so let her Dr know and they can try something else because not be able to climax is not only frustrating to you but for her as well!
2006-08-09 16:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a come hither motion with your index finger to find her G spot. And a lot of oral stimulation. Hope that works
2006-08-09 16:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try spelling out the abc's with your tounge. you will probably find a letter or combo of letters that makes her crazy so stick with those ones for a little bit before continuing. that is how i've given oral in the past and it never fails.
2006-08-09 18:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with you it's up to her some women never have an orgasim so don't worry about it tell her to see her doctor
2006-08-09 16:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by papasmurf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of women have a hard time with it. not unusual, however oral stimulation should work, unless shes having some guilt problems with the relationship or her sexual orientation. you can get therapy for that, seek it out if its important to you. can she get herself off?
2006-08-09 16:18:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋