hes going to college, im gonna be a senior in high school. we broke up bc it seemed best.
has anyone done this, but it worked out a few months or even years later? (meaning you got back together and survived)
give me hope!!! thanks!!!
mervie
2006-08-09 16:11:48 · 8 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
After I graduated high school, I broke up with my bf because he was going into his senior year... tested the waters that summer and the first month or two of college...got back with him for the next 3 1/2 years...
2006-08-09 16:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by stowchick01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a look around. It is very rare that anyone that goes off to college will marry their high school sweetheart. That is even if they both go off to college together. College opens your eyes and makes you realize that high school love is simply child's play. The world is so much bigger and more complex than a high school student can imagine. As you grow up a little, you begin to think of people and relationships in a different way. I know the analogy doesn't exactly fit, but I think you'll get the point. High school love is the very first step, like addition and subtraction are in math. As you get better and better in math, addition and subtraction seem so insignificant. When you finally learn calculus, addition and subtraction seem so childish and insignificant. The same thing happens with high school relationships, we look back on them and laugh at how cute they were, but we also get a little embarrassed because we were such dorks for making the relationships out to be so much more than they really are.
If you want to do the right thing, I recommend getting over it. The faster you do, the faster you will grow and gain wisdom. Before long it will all be just fond memories and you will have learned so much more about love and relationships.
2006-08-09 23:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OoO girl i wish u the best of luck with this because from experience relationships like that dont work atleast not in the near future who knows maybe things will work out in the very very very distant future
2006-08-09 23:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by puertoricancola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,,, believe it or not....... my g\f in high school and I broke up when we left for college..... she went one way,,, i the other,,,, and darn if after about 2 yrs,,,, we met up and got together...... we probably should have married.... each other..... but it didnt happen.....
Funny... I married the girlfriend before her in high school about 20 yrs later..... its a Hoot !!!! like old buddies......
good luck
2006-08-09 23:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is in the opposite situation (she was off to college and her boyfriend was a senior) and they are still going strong........He is graduated now and attending the same college as she is, so maybe that's a ray of hope for you.........Take care, dearheart..........
2006-08-09 23:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry
but most likely
it wont work out
ive been thru it
if u do get back together itll be lucky
or he will be seeing someone else and the same time.
or vice versa (in my case)
2006-08-09 23:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is silly. i know ppl do that...but i guess since u both are still young it is fine...
2006-08-09 23:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont work
2006-08-09 23:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋