My GOD-SISTER not my real sister just my god sister but anyways she fat black and ugly and she smell like fish she dirty and she always crying and getting mad talkin bout she cant get a boyf I tryed telling her why but she don't listen how can i tell her what I told yall about her in a nicer way she 15 years old
2006-08-09 16:11:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
A sister is a sister. Treat her as you would want to be treated. For instance, is the fact that she's black and overweight an issue to you? It sounds as if she wants to open up to you. Please don't treat her too harshly. Tell her auntie Veela says she's too young to be dating anyway. And if she does have hygiene issues, then perhaps you can gently mention that she needs to bathe or shower every day; plus use deodorant. And brush those teeth twice a day; flossing once a day. Does she have a weave or has she had her hair straightened? She still needs to keep it clean; although perhaps a washing every other day is enough (shower every day with a shower cap in this case). A detangling shampoo and conditioner may not be such a bad idea if she doesn't wash because the comb-throughs hurt too much. But either way, she's trying to open up to you. Don't be too harsh.
2006-08-09 16:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by veelalynne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take a shower or a bath with some scented stuff and a towel or a sponge, and do all the good hygiene stuff like brushing her teeth, flossing twice a day and using deodorant, then buy some new clothes and a little makeup, get her nails done. I think she should try talking to guys at her school or at church or in her neighborhood, then go to more public places like the mall
2006-08-09 23:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by That gurl AG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggestions To Fix Each Problem
fat - jenny craig
black - contact michael jackson
ugly - makeup...plastic surgery if she's really ugly
fish - douche
dirty - shower
crying - therapist
mad - watch anger management
2006-08-09 23:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by gotsluv4bsktball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your god sister, I assume her parents are friends with yours.. talk to your mom, maybe your mom could talk to her mom in a way that would be helpful, and then maybe her mom could teach her how to take care of herself.
2006-08-09 23:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look hon you have to understand some people have to take showers more then others do everyone body is different she is to young to be talking about a boyfriend any way .she need to work on her books she need to talk to a Doctor about body odor OK hon take care
2006-08-10 00:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by kmami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a God Sister. I wouldn't tell her. Let her be.
2006-08-09 23:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some nice bath stuff and perfume as a gift and maybe she will use it. Try to help her without hurting her feelings.
2006-08-09 23:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by housewives5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to get proper english.
2006-08-09 23:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by italiandude1717 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to take a shower
2006-08-10 00:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont
2006-08-09 23:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by paige l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋