he lied to me about her and he lied to her about me.now we have a kind a special relationship, we work together and talk about our problems, i don't know if this is just to weird?
2006-08-09 15:41:58 · 17 answers · asked by miss-used 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope nothing wrong. It shows that you are both adults. More than your husband seems to be, anyway.
2006-08-09 15:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a confusing situation. at the same time as she's talking about her husband are you actively in touch contained in the communique? If no longer, your answer is problem-free, do not communicate with her. you're able to continuously try merely ignoring her or as in a polite way as a probability say "i'm sorry that you're in an unhappy marriage yet please end putting me on your situation" or "I actually have a large type of work to do, so i am going to't communicate in the present day" and per chance after saying that some situations she'll get the conception. surely, it sounds like she may be honestly a approach of human beings you merely about could be blunt with to substantiate that her to get the image
2016-11-23 18:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would have to say not really. I mean you cant really hate her for not knowing about you and yet you two have something in common already, you both like your husband. Maybe the feelings of being upset are more towards him since he is the one that lied to you both. She did not do it intentionally as it sounds so really there is no reason to hate her or be angry with her.
2006-08-09 15:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for 3-some
2006-08-09 15:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too weird. Unless you're talking to her about how quickly he'll be available to her once you dump his a$$. I understand you two sharing that kind of bond. But you and he took vows that this sort of thing would not happen. Then the lying, on top of everything. You two should move on without him.
2006-08-09 15:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let something anger or upset you - it has a certain power over you. It is able to ruin your day or week or life. Simply by deciding to move one away from your husbands shows that he has no power over you.
2006-08-09 15:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Winter_Decay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly cant say that I understand you, but your husband is to blame for this MESS, I would never trust him again. I could never be Friends with some one who slept with my Hubby( weather she knew about you or not).I would call it SPLITS VILLE.
2006-08-09 15:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you hate her? She is a victim just like you are. I'm glad that you are woman enough to see that he is the one that you should hate.
2006-08-09 15:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes and no, shes not really at fault because your ex is the one to blame. on the other hand you can think she ruined your marriage but not really. it does take 2 to tango as they say
2006-08-09 15:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have a gay relationship with her and steal her from him,that would fix him,and you'll probably be better off.
2006-08-09 16:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋