Me and my husband have a 2years and 3 month old girl and wanted to start preparing for another baby - for the time seemed right. After I went to the gyni I got the news that servix cancer is froming and they want to operate as soon as possible. After the operation we could struggle to fall preganant and if I do get, I could struggle to hold the baby insight. Now some people don't have any problems falling pregnant or trouble after this operation.
Should I try and see what will happen or must I just except my faith?
2006-08-09 15:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
go get a book called Taking Charge of your fertility by Toni Weschler. It will help you understand your body and all the myths about it. It will help you time when you are ovulating and the best times to conceive. My Doctor recommended it to me and after 1 year of trying I got the book. It worked the very next month. It turns out that my timing was wrong due to mis-information. I hope it helps you, too! It's not only about getting pregnant. It's about knowing your body and knowing when you are fertile or not. You can pick and choose what you do with your info. Good luck and don't listen the all the myths!
2006-08-09 15:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like you need to wait until after the surgery to see how it goes. If it's successful, and there is no more cancer, you may be in the clear. But if it's too risky later.... if I were you I'd be incredibly happy that I was able to give birth to two daughters!! Some people aren't even able to have one! So just give it some time, stay calm, and see what happens. Good luck! Hope the surgery goes well for you :)
2006-08-09 23:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for this trial in your life. I would really try to deal with your health right now and when that is successfully resolved, see what you are dealing with. maybe after you are healed, you could go to an infertility specialist and find out the best way to approach having another baby. Good luck and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
2006-08-09 22:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first and foremost , you're already a mommy, its most important that you stay healthy and alive. if you do need to have your cervix removed or become infertile b/c of a surgery, then it must be done, you need to be there for that little girl. If it doesnt work out for you, you might want to consider a surrogate? or adoption? GL.
2006-08-09 22:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mina222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the doctor knows best, but it's all in gods hands, leave it to him or the doctor.but that might cause you health problems.just for having 1 baby now i cain't even eat pork messed me up for life.so you need to do what is best for your body, you need to be able to take care of your other baby.
2006-08-09 23:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by bridget j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋