When I was age 10, my cousin a girl much more older than i am (14-15) molested me.
Since then when I was growing up, I don't know exactly how to describe it - but maybe I was addicted to sex. Or anything sexual of the opposite sex. Maybe a pervert. I don't know if this is normal. I just need to know if this is normal.
2006-08-09 14:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by tintaperak7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Normal - yes.
People learn by experiance. When you throw a ball up, it falls. You do it a few times, and you start to believe in gravity.
Relationships (even sexual ones) are no different. People experiment with relationships just like they experiment with gravity. They try different interactions with a variety of people in order to establish some parameters (i.e. rules) of what to expect from the world when you interact with it.
People who have been traumatized by an abusive relationship, feel greater uncertainty & urgency of making "sense" of what happened. In order to do so, they tend to engage in frequent (and possibly deviant) behavior to try to establish some sort of rules and understanding of what happened to them.
Many people are molested or abused and the impact on their lives can be truly sad.
2006-08-09 14:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by jack b 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It is..I was molested as a young girl repeatedly..In my adult life I found I was out of control--for a time--when it came to sex. I also abused my body with drugs and alcohol because I never thought I was worth much. What helped me was therapy and someone I trusted enough to tell the really dark stuff too. I also got into a 12 step program..not god based..but spirituality based...
I found that by talking to another survivor and relating my experiences that there was someone else who had survived and that gave me hope...
..Keep searching within hun...And know that I like many other's have survived abuse and continue to live each day...
..keep you head up..
2006-08-09 14:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by sablelemarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A pervert is not normal. Your older cousin,messing with you is not ok. Seek help. If you trusted your own feelings, I don't think you would be asking the question. Life is too short and precious, don't let this ruin you.
2006-08-09 14:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is normal but try not to have sex with every one maybe you seek some personal help on that one. not for one second you think that you are a pervert. a pervert in my case is someone who looks at people without permission and only want to sex every one theirs eyes land on.
2006-08-09 14:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by pappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nto a pervert, your cousin is.Its yoru way of handling things..you should change this soon.
You might try getting help hun..
Someone to talk to other than your friends..i know they are big party of a lo tof peoples lives..but you may ne4ed aprofessional..im not sure...I hope everything goes well for you.
2006-08-09 14:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ms cool pants. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Molestation is the crime of sexual acts with infants as much as the age of 18, alongside with touching of inner maximum areas, exposure of genitalia, taking of pornographic pictures, rape, inducement of sexual acts with the molester or with different infants, and transformations of those acts by applying pedophiles. Molestation is any undesirable sexual acts with adults wanting rape. So no, i do no longer think of your chum could be considered as molested. yet she will record a document of a few style agaisnt the guy. seek advice from a pair police approximately it, possibly they are able to help you.
2016-11-04 06:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times they need to see a conseuer because when it happens to them when they get older they feel that its ok to do it to other people younger because it happened to them.. or other times you act normal and know it was wrong. maybe you should talk to a couselerl
2006-08-09 14:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Melinda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion without proper counseling I believe one of two things can happen. 1. You become sexual oppressed 2. You get sexually wild. Get some counseling before you really hurt yourself. God bless you on your situation.
2006-08-09 14:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some rely on it just because its a feeling of security or you just like it
it doesnt mean your a pervert in any way what so ever
2006-08-09 14:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jonatello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that sometimes when people are molested they become sexually promiscuous. I've also heard that some become repressed. I guess it all depends on how you handle it and your personality.
2006-08-09 14:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pappa Poopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋