I am in a big fight with my best friend and I am not the type to fight back but she called me whore!! What should I do!! I am a teenager and I am a good girl!! I am certanly not a whore!! That bugged me really bad because she said it around almost all my guy friends from church...at church!!
What would you say??
Girl with issues
2006-08-09 14:43:14 · 19 answers · asked by lizzie! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she called you whore then she is not your friend. So just forget about her. They're are better people out than name calling whores.
2006-08-17 11:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't call friends whores, especially BEST friends. So, if she wants to go around saying things about you that aren't true, I suggest you close the door and find a new best friend. If she comes back and is sorry, well then, maybe she's your friend after all, but you're certainly not the one who should be working to fix the friendship.
2006-08-09 15:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Elli . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip on life, serious. A whore, what the hell is that anyway. If you were to live in the eighteen century i can understand the bitterness. These days words like that are meant to throw you off balance from what you really are. Put your head in the skies and think in twenty years how fudging fabulous you are going to be and where that monster will stay with her pity bull-s-hit of name calling. beside, its been know if a person call you a name that what he/she thinks of one self.
2006-08-17 11:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by NEMESIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cease all conversations, communications and dissassociate with this person. This person is not your friend!!! If she was a true friend she wouldn't stoop to the name calling etc.
Don't engage in any conversations....telephone calls, social events whether they be at your church youth group or school.
Competely shut this person out of your life. With a friend like her you sure don't need any more enemies!!
2006-08-16 23:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has downgraded your reputation in Church !! Go to the pastor or priest and ask him or her to help you. What an unusual plalce to call names. What did you do to deserve that. I think there is more to the story. Tell the Minister of the church if you are so innocent and he/she can get you both together and talk about it.
2006-08-17 14:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u should try to knw why the hell she called u so if ur a good girl...if it wasn't ur fault anywhere then better get away from this girl...shes not ur friend sweety....n if it was u who were somewhere wrong then n love ur frnd a lot n cant do without her then better go urself n say sorry,,,remember nothing is bigger than the love in this world
2006-08-17 11:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by shrish15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The true if i was in your shoes i would tell her that thoes problems happend between friends but is not fair to talk bad to people about each other let her know that you wouldn't do what she is doing and also that frienship means a lot to you. so remember that problems are always there but been yourself is the best to win ina problem.
2006-08-09 14:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by la_salvadoreña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dats not a very good friend but w/e just tell her how u feel n if da dosent work forget dat ur a nice girl n curse her out bak not in church though
2006-08-17 13:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by laprincezz809 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing she's not a very good friend at all. I wouldn't let her get to me like that but another thing is you don't let ppl run over you or talk to you any kind of way. If i was you tell her like it is.
2006-08-17 09:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Don't stoop to her level and retaliate with more name calling- don't fight her. Just don't have anything to do with her. If she comes to you and says she is sorry it will be up to you whether or not to forgive her.
2006-08-17 13:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋