There is this girl who has been a good friend...she works with me...one of my friends told me that if you love a girl, make her feel special...I started making sure while I am around she shouldn't have to worry...I was always there to support her...I would wait for her at lunch...but lately I felt she was not comfortable....I aksed her and she wrote me an e-mail that "give me some space...one can not be in mood to talk, joke or party all the time...there is some problem which i wan to solve at my end and dont want to discuss..."
I wrote back..."That I inderstant that sometimes I crossed my limits. And that I will not interfere in her work, crack jokes or sms her any more...be happy"
To which she replied "Thanks for understanding.."
Now friends I dont know what to do...now I have distanced my self from her, but i am very unhappy...what to do..?
2006-08-09 14:41:03 · 15 answers · asked by Arnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You gave it a shot and she is not really interested. You are looking for someone who is as interested in you as much as you are in them. That is a much more fun relationship. Wait for someone you don't have to 'fight for'. You want to be with someone that wants to be with you. That's the best!
As for not being happy. Happiness is something you do, not something you are.
2006-08-09 14:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~K~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling! but sad to say! when a girl is fed up with you, you pretty much dont have a chance with her. but let me tell you this!.... never give your all to a woman it will turn her off. give yourself in bits and parts, make it a challenge for any girl to get close to you and watch. so give her extra space avoid her say nothing to her, let her see that without her you still have a life and you are happy, hey what the hell find someone else to chill with and let her see it! good luck sport.
2006-08-09 21:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious this girl isnt interested. I would be nice, but move on with my life. There are too many people in this world to let one make you feel so bad.
2006-08-09 21:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. If she wants to get closer to you, she knows where you are. Don't make the first move here. She has made her feelings clear.
2006-08-09 21:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allright man this is what you gotta do step up your performance at work get all the ladies in the office to like you dont over act it start gradual talk to them all you have to make her want you
2006-08-09 21:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't feel the same toward you that you feel for her. Stay friends and look elsewhere for a more meaningful relationship. Good luck!
2006-08-09 21:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by mynamesapain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidentally, she just wanted your friendship and when she seen you were wanting more, you scared her off. Talk to her honestly about your situation and be able to handle the let down.
2006-08-09 22:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she prefers the distance. Get over it and move on.
2006-08-09 21:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone. if she wants you , she will come back around. do you want to invest all your time and emotion into someone who wouldn't do the same for you, or even appreciate that you care for her. find another one bro.
2006-08-09 21:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on
2006-08-09 21:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋