2006-08-09 14:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by steve 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
not sure if he's gay but have gotten some hints
2006-08-09 14:47:51 · update #1
I have been in your situation , the best thing I did was to wait it out and become friends first . The friendship evolved and we eventually became lovers . The relationship we had later was much better because we were friends first . Take your time and test the Waters first . If you do not end up as lovers you can still be friends . Good luck
2006-08-09 16:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation when i was at high school. My first gay crush, his name was Kyle. He used to catch the bus home with me and we'd spend that ride talking and hanging out. He started hanging out at my place, playin playstation etc, then ringing me up in the mornings and stuff to tell me he'd save me a seat on the bus. Our conversations started to get more personal, and we got to know each other really well. My biggest mistake was never making a move, taking things that one extra step further from flirting. He moved over to Australia and I've only heard from him a couple of times since. I'm always going to feel the same way for him and fell like sh*t because i never did anything about it.
Take that chance, go that extra step. it could be worth your while.
Best of luck.
Josh W.
Auckland,
New Zealand.
2006-08-10 15:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by ornge_sherbert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you have gotten some hints, ask him to spend some time with you. When the time feels right ask him how he feels about the subject of homosexuality. Certainly this would not be the time to ask him out. Just be cautios and be positive, kind and caring. If you feel comfortable with him you may come out to him at this point, just realize that if you tell him and he finds it offensive, you may be outed to your entire school. Good luck and God Bless
2006-08-11 04:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by tri_valley_bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation with a coworker of mine. but i think its easier at school to make a connection. Fisrt find out what groups or activitys he's in if any. then join that group. sometimes theres special projects that you end up working on with that person. get some alone time with him, and lots of times, guys will spill there guts a lot easier then, and won't tell on you about flirting with them. you put yourself on the same level as he.
2006-08-09 15:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by dvx9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a pretty good idea that you are gay?
Ask him if he wants to hang out. Don't expect it to go anywhere, just do whatever it is you like to do when you hang out...bike ride, run, haunt the mall, whatever. Sooner or later you'll figure it out.
If he doesn't want to hang out, you figured something else out....he's not interested.
2006-08-09 15:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your friend. invite him to stay over night and talk about being gay find what feels about being gay and flirt with him go camping with up alone ask parents first
2006-08-13 08:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flirt
if he doesnt like it then stop
then try talking friendly everyday stuff
if he likes that then try firting again
then if he likes that
then i guess make a move?
make sure hes gay though
thats a biggie
2006-08-09 14:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test him throw hints if he takes them then BINGOOOOOO if not then say he wasnt good enough but try asking people about him maybe u ll find out 4sure a little dectective works will HELP
2006-08-09 17:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Unique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to "accidentally" bump into him all the time and even talk about your idea of a great time with other guys. Even start rubbing yourself and see how he reacts
2006-08-09 17:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know if he's gay. That's kinda important here.
2006-08-09 14:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋