Scared to talk to beautiful women, how do I get pass my fear.?

Answer 1

Talk to them as if they were your very pretty 15 year old neice

Answer 2

Been there dude. I know your pain. The churning in your stomach. The sweaty palms. The thoughts racing around inside your skull and getting mixed up. Dry throat. The doubts. Am I right?
There is a very easy way to get past this. I remember being in a bar in London and the most eautiful woan in the world walked in. She was like an angel covered in chocolate and made of gold. Every head turned when she walked in. Even a lot of the girls were checking her out.
Now I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, but I'm not a swamp monster either and I've had my fair share of girlfriends and one night stands, but I'd never been the instigator of aforementioned trists and scenarios, right? So I knock back a shot of whiskey and I go up to her and I say
"So where are you going tonight?" and she answers
"Well, I'm going to a bar on Tottenham Court Road, so you should go to somewhere like Camden or Brixton." Now that is how you get shot down. In flames. If you don't know, her destination and her proposed destination for me aren't exactly in walking distance of each other. I was guted and it hurt, but my friends were there and they helped me laugh it off and they bought me some drinks to help me back up. But since then, I have no fear. Partly because nothing can be as bad as a woman like that destroying you like in such a fashion, but also because it didn't kill me. It hurts the first time, but you get over it. There are more than 2 billion women in this world, so if one says no, then there are lots of alternatives and each rejection makes you stronger and better. You have to judge your weight class and take into account the competition, but you can't just be scared of women. They're lovely and they have so many benefits. Just talk and you will see that they aren't aliens. And if you get shot down by a stunner, you'll get over it and it isn't the end of the world.

And just incase you don't know; Don't use chat-up-lines. They're not big or clever. The best opening line is "Hello." followed swiftly by "can I buy you a drink."

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

Answer 3

I'm a 49 year old guy. With age comes some wisdom. It's like this: No woman, indeed no one, is her appearance. Regardless of what a woman (or anyone) looks like they're human beings first and foremost. They have the same needs, emotions, possibly even more challenges than you do in life. If a woman or anyone is too attached to her looks she usually stays at a shallow level. Some women don't understand that they're not their beauty, size of breasts, legs, make-up, eye color, etc. Likewise, no matter what she looks like, you should realize that she's a human being. I'm a psychiatrist and I've seen extremely pretty women receive the services I provide as often as their less pretty counterparts. They go to the bathroom like anyone else. They can burp (and worse!) if they're not careful. They get wrinkled with age, like anyone else....So don't let appearances fool you into thinking that you're dealing with someone larger than life because someone is a beautiful woman. For a man to go for pretty looks simply on the basis of appearance is one of the shallowest and immature things he can do for himself....and her, especially if they end up involved with each other. Look at the human being. Beauty is attractive but is not all. Don't let it lure you into thinking otherwise.

Answer 4

Your average human has 28 thousand days in his life and given what happend everyday in the world thank yourself lucky you can witness beauty.What i am saying is how many of those average 28 thousand days have you got left ?

When it comes to meeting a beautiful woman i think you will know in your first heat beat if she is the one.But like myself if she isnt right i am off to find miss right!

Do your self a favour.

If you want something-go and get it!

Red faces and blushes last about 4 minutes last i counted how long they last!

Head high she will only have to like the real you in the end!

Good luck tiger!

Answer 5

You are scared because you don't think your good enough for them. It really doesn't matter what you think they think, all it will do if you don't talk to them is make you feel less adequate or worthy to have a woman like that. Chances are that she has the same fears. If they are cruel to you and laugh or something like that, then you are lucky to find out how shallow they really are.

Answer 6

Many beautiful women will only get real confident cocky guys talking to her - if you are genuine and honest and show that you are interested in her she will respond to you. Just remember because someone is beautiful they are not necessarily nice as a person.

Answer 7

You have to build up your confidence. I have my fair share of good looks but some guys don't come up and talk to me when I know they want to. And I'm a downright friendly person. Just put your chin up, walk over and say, "hi", and go from there. If nothing else pay them a compliment on what they're wearing or even their shoes. Work the conversation, and it will work for you.

Answer 8

Just remember that they are people, just like you. Then ask yourself "What is the worst thing that could happen?" If you never see them again, even if they reject you, you don't have to think about it ever again. I used to know this guy who looked like Woody Allen but he always had pretty girlfriends. Basically, he just asked every pretty girl he encountered if they would go out with him. When they said no, he got rejected a lot but on the other hand, when they said yes at least he had a confidence boosting date and at best he would wind up with a pretty girlfriend who went out with him for a few months. Think about it like this - when you want to hunt birds, you take a gun loaded with bird shot (small pellets that scatter when fired to hit a larger area), think of asking out girls as bird shot, you won't hit with most of the pellets but you really only have to hit with one to get the bird.

Answer 9

I'm not so sure what you're scared of?

That these women might clobber you,

Or they might report you to the police?

Or they might pale and scream till they faint?

My advice is, just as you speak to everyone else, with respect, that's how you speak to women, beautiful or not. Don't worry, nothing like I listed above is likely to happen.

Answer 10

Talk to ugly woman you will get more fear just imagine them in bed. Sorry but looks counts too...

Answer 11

you have 2 get over this fear.

Just take a deep breathe, and talk 2 them. Practice makes perfect. They r after all human aswell!!!