How much time should be needed for a couple to prove love each other?

Question

Live divorce rate become so high, so to prevant that how much time they need to understand each other???

I 'm not asking for myself, its just your view and experiance, and i also want to know is their any crushel time when you can examin/ weigh your partner, then decide

I 'm not asking for myself, its just your view and experiance, and i also want to know is their any crushel time when you can examin/ weigh your partner, then decide>>SHORT ANSWER please<<<

Answer 1

I would give dating someone 1-2 yrs. by this time you should know each other pretty well...good & bad. Important thing is to grow together and not apart.

Answer 2

I think it has nothing to do with time.

It is just that you both have to really make the effort. Some people just think that either a couple is "right" for each other or they are not. I know some are better matches than others, but no matter how well you know somebody, and how long you have known them, and how much like you they are.... believe me they are still going to annoy the heck out of you, after you have lived with them for awhile.

The point is, if you really want a lasting marriage, you have to be willing to give more than 50/50. There will be times when one of you is down or angry or feeling lost, and the other will have to carry them for awhile. Each of you has to be willing to do that.
This is why the marriage vows say for better or for worse, etc.

Find out what you can about the other person's views on marriage. If their parents and grandparents, and most other relatives, are all divorced... then that person may not have what it takes to stick it out. They may feel it is just fine to desert the ship if things aren't going their way.

Statistics show that marriages between children of divorced parents have the least chance of making it.... but their chances get better if one of the partners lived in a home where the marriage was good and lasted. Just staying married isn't always the best either-- the marriage should be working not just stagnating.

Living together before marriage is one of the worst things to do, if you want a marriage to work. Statistics PROVE those are the ones most likely to break up. The reason: if somebody feels they have to "try you out" first... they were never committed enough to the relationship to begin with. Find somebody who loves you enough that they are willing to marry you even if they don't know what it's like to live with you.

Answer 3

Now, this answer is not going to be popular, but i don't care. It has to be said. Love is soooooooooooo rare. If you aren't married then it is recommended that couples attend counselling before the ceremony. Getting to know a person takes a life time. Marriage does not signify understanding.

Answer 4

Im not trying to get sympathy from anyone. That was a very rude answer. & in fact it is real, hwy would someone joke about that? wow you must have a bad life so u take it out on other people.

Answer 5

I think you should move in with someone for at least 6 months prior to marrying them. That way you know if you can deal with all of the little things mere dating doesn't show. Like if he leaves his dirty drawers in the middle of the floor. Or if she forts in her sleep.

If you move in with the person you intend to marry before you marry them, you learn if you can live with all of their idiosyncrasy or not.

Answer 6

Dude, it's probably different for everyone. Eyes meet, the fire is lit and it could take a week or it could take years. People are fickle.

Answer 7

a long time its not a one month or even year thing they need alot of time b4 day can get married

Answer 8

Time is time,,knowing a honest person is what makes things work.,,then u know what ur getting into,,

Answer 9

man, if you have to ask you are no where near it