he still tells me all the time that he loves me, and that I'm beautiful, but sex wise nothing is happening!
2006-08-09 14:31:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him straight that you WANT more sex... And either he provides it or he allows you to pursue it somewhere else...
If you are beautiful, then you are probably inundated with offers every day of the week...
If that don't work, then you could always try being more seductive... Wear sexy or sleazy outfits to attract him... Or suggest some kinky stuff (bondage or what ever you are interested in)... Or when you are in his presence, hitch up your skirt (or undo your jeans) show him you aren't wearing any underwear and start playing with yourself... Or invite a sexy girlfriend round (that you know he is attracted to and that is up for some 3some fun) and start getting hot and heavy on the floor in front of him or in the bedroom... Or when his mates are round, wear something see-through and ask if anyone wants to get you off...
2006-08-09 19:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very common question. Is he working too hard ? Is he worried about something at work or somewhere else ? Next question prepare yourself ! Are you still rude enough in bed for him - or has it become a bit samey? Do you have money problems ? Has he got someone else ? I'm not giving you a solution - but you may be able to find out through a process of illimination by asking him and yourself questions like these !
2006-08-09 14:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by beiterspace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's under a lot of stress ? A lack of interest in sex is often a symptom of stress. Talk to him and ask him about it why he doesn't feel like sex, and ask if he's under a lot of stress. It may be from work, family, or something else.
The reason may have nothing to do with the way he feels about you.
2006-08-09 14:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah perhaps he found out he got a std from someone else and he don't want to loose u but he knows that if he has sex with u he can give it to u something like herpes. sounds pretty fishy or maybe he's impotent and can't get it up no more. It all happens. go get a std test at your local health department and see if he already has given u something you never no and the test is free.
2006-08-09 17:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by ROSEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys are pasted sex sure it can happen every once in awhile but does it have to happen all the time i mean it's a good thing but maybe he just doesn't want the relationship to revolve around sex all the time try talking to him about see what you can do to help him get over a fear or something just talk and try not to have sex on your mind that whole time either
2006-08-09 14:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Loveable23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him straight why he doesnt want you to have sex together anymore? There could be a simple answer and your worrying over nothing, so i wouldnt storm in to him demanding to know if he is seeing someone else because you might have it all wrong, and end up losing him thru it.
Good luck, x
2006-08-09 14:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you put some additional background down as far as you have been going out , personalties etc etc .. If you have been going out for some time the sex drive can fade a bit .He loves you totaly but physicaly is he a breast man ? derrier man ,? leg man ? foot man?.Does he have a fetish you are reluctant to try ?Does he like recieiving oral sex but you hate giving it .On the weekend with you having nothing planned dress to show off the assests that matter most to him .Try to grin and bear with his taste as long as he reciprocates .
2006-08-09 14:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he may have another girl on his dick, while your busy making a life, and being an honest good hard working person. He may be getting it from someone else, so he feels he dosen't need to do it with you. Check out his phone, email see if anything sketchy is going on.
2006-08-09 15:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gained weight? Is he really drunk by the time you two go to bed? Do you initiate sex ever? these are the questions you should ask yourself.
2006-08-09 14:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that he is cheating but before you start believeing it you should talk to him.. maybe he loves you so much he wants to wait to see if it works out for a while with out sex.
2006-08-09 14:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Melinda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋