my friend 15 m that i have known 4 10 years im 15 f now and i rely need this plz be serious we still get together and talk a lot he is always there for me and he is so sweet but lately when we talk he gets an erection while we talk he gets embarrassed and walks out of da room da worst part is its rely rely rely noticable i tell him i understand but he still walks out of da room wut should i do?
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2006-08-09 14:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
thats just a part of growing up. he doesnt want you to see him getting an erection over you. that IS very embarrassing. he obviously likes you though, if you feel the same for him you should date him.
2006-08-09 14:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old joke, that boys of that age get erections if the wind blows the wrong way. It's partially overactive hormones (he's heading into his sexual peak, will be there in a few years) and partially that he probably likes you. It's a very embarrassing thing. Ever liked a boy and you're embarrassed to let him know? Or imagine your best friend shouting across a crowded hallway that you masturbate. Kind of the same thing--his feelings for you are glaringly obvious, out there for everyone to see. Not only does he like you, but you turn him on. He may not even be sure how he feels for you, may be embarrassed to tell you he likes you, or may simply value your friendship too much to take it that direction. And unfortunately, guys can't control that sort of thing; it just happens. You're a really good friend though for trying to reassure him that you understand.
2006-08-09 14:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess it's normal for a guy to have an erection when talking to someone he feels strongly for...not everything is about sex
the very fact he feels embarrased means that he's not thinking about sex, but a lot factors contribute to the erection, especially psychological factors
don't worry too much about it....talk to him and make him feel at ease with himself
2006-08-09 14:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by KingRichard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 all boys get an errection if a girl even comes into view. But, if you aren't interested in him at least tell him now and let him down easy. He obviously gets an errection because he wants you.
2006-08-09 14:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Birdman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick w/ him! If you stop being friends, then he'd REALLY be embarrassed. And then how would you feel, you broke up your friendship just because he has... um, an attraction to you? If it was me, I would go talk to him to make him feel at least a little better about it...
2006-08-09 14:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Just Another Broken Heart♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a normal emotion! he shouldnt be imbarrassed have him think of somthing like....his mom walkin in or his grandma sittin next to him this is not a joke! this is normal no cure hun
2006-08-09 14:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to boys his age all the time and is completely normal. He has to handle it his own way though. There isn't much you can say to take away his embarassment.
2006-08-09 14:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by butterfli782 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably likes you and is having thoughts about you tell him not to get embarrassed it is only natural
2006-08-09 14:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by sandilou23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really scary/funny. Sorry.
I think that means he really really likes you. I would just try to ignore it as long as you can.
2006-08-09 14:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that idiot to stay the hell away from you.
2006-08-09 14:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋