but i will be moved out of my house by the time i am due. but here's the thing i think i want to be. because i won't have to worry about financials, or anything like that. and the guy and me have been together a long time...but i don't know how to go about all of this...if i am not 100% sure then when should i tell every one else?
2006-08-09 14:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by sara 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hey girl, I was 17 myself when i learned that i was to be pregnant
yes its not easy but you will find alot of love for that child you are carrying. Its not easy telling everyone the news yes but your going to have to tell them soon before they find out themselves.
soon they will get over that. My hubby is locked up right now and im 18 and now im pregnant again my child is 7 months old and pregnant again whoa but you will learn from it and it is great to hold that child in your arms for the first time i went through the same thing you are going through. when you give birth get the depo shot because the patch just does not work i was on birth control and still got pregnant they say the shot is better.
Good luck if you need anything email me,
2006-08-09 14:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't be so confident about your finances or your living arrangements.
At your age not only is a relationship ridiculous, adding a child is bad for you and it's bad for the kid.
And trying to beef up the validity of your relationship by saying you've been together for a long time is pointless because for your age. Being with someone when you're fourteen, fifteen, sixteen means absolutley nothing.
I think you have an even bigger problem on hand, being you're about to embark on a horrible 'adventure,' because realistically that's all it is; some big fun journey that will last all of another couple years.
Young love is just that, young 'love.'
As for telling anyone else, like family, I would suspect your family isn't happy with your decision to leave home as you are, and furthermore, I doubt you will tell them until it's absolutley necessary because it'll be one more in your face reminder that you've run off and done something childish.
You say your man has finances, but what else does he have; from here it looks like he has some serious responsibility issues and if he really loved you you wouldn't be in such a mess.
Then again, you can't expect love from teenagers.
2006-08-09 14:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by dork_hollywood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 06:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, a good rule of thumb is to not tell anyone (except maybe the father, and a close relative or friend) until after the first trimester. Once you have passed into the second trimester, the risk of miscarriage is greatly reduced. People usually don't tell anyone about their pregnancy during the first three months because if something, God forbid, should happen to the baby, you don't have to deal with telling everyone about it during your time of grief.
2006-08-09 14:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by pd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is be honest with everyone. Confirm your pregnancy with the doctor, then let your boyfriend know. You should tell your parents too because they are going to find out eventually. You have a few months to decide exactly where you are going to live and how you are going to support the baby, so don't rush into anything.
2006-08-09 14:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you ar 100% sure. The dollar store in my town has pregnancy tests. Go get one and move on from there. At seventeen (almost 18) this is not the kind of news you want to start shouting from the mountain tops.
2006-08-09 14:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here's an idea, 1st - take a pregnancy test. 2nd - go to a woman's clinic and find out information on birth control and the use of condoms and information on STD's such as AIDS. 3rd - tell your parents.
2006-08-09 14:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by codylynn_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you need to take a pregnancy test after you miss your period. Have you even missed your period yet?? Sometimes when we want something badly our bodies can trick us into thinking we are.
2006-08-09 14:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to wal mart and buy a pregnancy test
2006-08-09 14:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by feetntails 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait at least until pregnancy is confirmed by your doctor. You don't want to get everyone riled up for nothing.
2006-08-09 14:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by fizzygod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋