Okay I am 11 and am a real girly girl, i'm not blonde or anything, and am a straight A student, I am pretty serious too, but i am known to all but my friends as a girly person who talk a lot! I don't like many sports and am REALLY REALLY NICE!! Of course I am imperfect like everyone and I am just trying to fit in. I am not a nerd or very populaur, but am nice and friends with everyone, and smart, which makes me normal! I just want to be a little morenot girly and not over the top with my girlyness! Give me some tips to be a tad bit less girly!
2006-08-09 14:02:57 · 35 answers · asked by monkey. 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
look i am in 6th grade i don't wear make-up and i don't wear a bunch of pink and act like a brat.
2006-08-09 14:12:03 · update #1
Don't worry!!! It's good for a girl to be girly and for a man to be manly!! That's why God gave us what we got!! And if these people can't take u for who u r, then they're not your real friends!!!
2006-08-09 14:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay the way you are. Why do you want to be girly anyway? Your personality suits you the best, no one else. Stay smart, and sporty and just the way you are, because that leads to a great future. Look at all these other people on here, maybe the same age as you, asking about sex questions and other inappropriate questions that they shouldn't even think about when they are this age, I am telling you seriously, never change anything about yourself!! And never try to be like someone else or change yourself for someone than ain't even worth it!
2006-08-09 14:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by la. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in order to be less "girly", you need to find a sport you like. I am NOT girly at all.....so I know alot about how to not be girly. what REALLY helps is to get into a sport. It really helps....there has to be at least one sport in the world that you like.....some of my favorites are football, hockey, and tennis....yours might be different. You could start to like baseball, soccer, anything! Try to not where little mini skirts and tank tops....try to where longer shorts....and t-shirts.....but just remember, dont change who you are just cause of what others want you to be. Be yourself! But if you really REALLY wanna be less girly.....all it takes is a sport...Good luck and GOD BLESS!
2006-08-09 14:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that except for very popular. I toned down my girlyness by liking different bands like Panic! At The Disco and Fall Out Boy.
2006-08-09 14:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweetascherrypie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hang out with a different crowd and group of people and find a mentor who has the same qualities your looking for then get close under their wing and you may be able to overcome your girly girlness
2006-08-09 14:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by bdjones_78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im also 11 and in 6th and im a girly girl but i love sports so if i were u get my advice its bettter gettin advice from people ur age well i love guy sports but i dont really play them im also an A student but i also get b's once a while and what i would do is change ur username so they wont tink ur one um play more sports oo and i also talk alot its normal well just send me an email click on my avatar oo and maybe get a boyfriend
2006-08-09 14:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't anything wrong wit being girly seeing as how u r a girl but if u really find it a problem then try purple instead of pink and cheerleaading instead of ballet and a skirt instaed of a dress and maybe a ponytail instead of a bun just take your girliness down a level
2006-08-09 14:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by ASHLEY C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tone it down a bit, it's not necessary to be bubbly all the time. Try listening instead of talking so much, you sound very enthusiastic so I suggest being a little more quiet. Good luck.
2006-08-09 14:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl act like a tom boy and do things others won't expect you to do. Don't change exactly the way you are just try to get interested in some things.
2006-08-09 14:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be less feminen? i encourage girly behavior of my girls. my biological daughter has been getting her nails done professionally since she was 2. she won't ever know how to be anything BUT girly. he's 7 and wears make-up. she is able to put it on herself and it's VERY tasteful. she even puts on eye liner. THAT'S a girl!
2006-08-09 14:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋