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My friend's brother (who is black) only dates white girls. I don't think I ever seen him with a black girl or a girl from any other race. My friend recently started dating this white guy and her brother is pissed. He doesn't think that she should date a white guy and he is not telling her why. My friend asked me about why he is acting this way. (She thought I would know since my mom is black and my dad is white) I didn't know, so she thought I should go to Yahoo and ask some black guys if they may know the reason why. So, do you? Personally, I think he is just being a hypocrite.

2006-08-09 13:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by hpotter4ever2000 4 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

ok o: what does ans stand for?

2006-08-09 14:04:26 · update #1

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I am not a guy but I will answer this question. When it comes to dating white women, due to racism and segregation, black men have always been brainwashed by white men to think that white was always right, and because they were told for so long not to look, speak, associate with white people, they feel that now that times have changed they can now do what they have never been allowed to do. I say white men because it was mostly men that ran society, they even told their white women what and what not to do. Your friend's brother probably feels like the white man has always told him/the black man that he could not do this or that and now his sister is dating a white guy and he doesn't think it is fair or sees it as if his sister is supporting the very same person who has always told the black man no. He feels it's alright to date white women because he subconsciously takes it as a slap in the white man's face because he now has the white man's girl; the girl that the white man has told him not to look at or associate with. It all stems down from attitudes during periods of racism which was not very long ago, which is why there is animosity between whites and blacks on both sides.
And about being prettier, that is not the case because there are pretty people as well as ugly people in every race. Beauty is only in the eye of beholder. Beauty to me may be ugly to you...

2006-08-09 15:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy lady 3 · 0 0

If your friends brother is upset simply because her boyfriend is white then your friends brother is being hypocritical. But perhaps he knows something about the boyfriend that she doesn't know and he is trying to protect her from that. Maybe she should ask him for the reason behind it.

I have said repeatedly to my family that I would rather my daughter date and marry a black man who loves her and treats her with respect than to marry a white man who is going to beat the crap out of her everyday of her life and who will not take care of her.

2006-08-15 09:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by onyxunicorn 2 · 0 0

Some black men think that all women belong to them and they will date a white girl but expect black women to be available in case they want to go back or the white thing doesnt work out.

2006-08-09 14:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by h nitrogen 5 · 1 0

Well.... most guys(not just blacks) are attracted to white. (However numerous people have Asian and LAtina fetishes such as me, but white still remains to be the most beutiful to most. In this society, white girls far outweigh blacks in beuty, blacks are simply seen as sex objects. Your brother (along with other brothers) may just be expressing his normal attitude of protecting his sister since black girls are as previously stated "sex objects", this protection is common with any brother of any race. The black boy may feel that his sister is being "pimped" by a white guy, which he feels is degrading to his family, his sister and his race(this dates back to slavery) I think this brother would express the same emotions of any brother of any race soo. and you know how guys are, selfish right? (well most)


ohhh... i was in the process of answeing. lol =)

2006-08-09 14:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by ok o 2 · 0 0

There you pick yet another racist question. To state that white ladies are 'thinner' is flat out fake. maximum probable there are in basic terms as many fat white women human beings as their are fat Black women human beings (proportion sensible I recommend, no longer in organic numbers.) - u . s . of america is obese - on an identical time as that is been mentioned that black women human beings have greater suitable butts - there are various white women those with super around butts as properly. As Ruby mentioned, that is questions like those, and thinking like yours, that keeps racism going. extremely, you're asking this question because of the fact of your own racial possibilities - your theory that black adult adult males, or white adult adult males have actual alterations; that's surely untrue. there are various black people who seem precisely like somebody white. i comprehend a black guy who seems in basic terms like bill Murray. I recommend bodily they're same; the only distinction is, he's youthful and darker - yet each and every thing else - is proper. i've got considered different white women human beings, who seem precisely like black women human beings too - with of direction the only distinction being hair color and pores and skin color; you will get your innovations approximately humanity greater consistent with certainty so as that your attitude to adult adult males, and relationship, can substitute into greater suitable than very virtually your own racial possibilities, which i'm useful are actually not in accordance with good judgment - yet emotion - and perchance even the forceful teachings of your loved ones who might have persuaded you to experience detrimental issues approximately adult adult males of particular races. because of the fact the ideals you have, are rooted in racist ideals - which contain a theory that there are certainly actual alterations 'in accordance with race' - No... actual alterations are in accordance with Genes. then you have self belief approximately who works out, and who would not, who eats stunning, and who would not, and each and all of the in between - that's what contributes to actual distinction .... wish this enables!

2016-11-04 06:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Black guys date white women "cause they prettier babies" (quote from a black guy). Who knows why he doesn't want his sister dating a white guy. 'ok' is mostly full of sh1t.

2006-08-09 14:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by normobrian 6 · 0 0

it's hypocrisy
going back to slavery...white women were off limits to blacks, but whites raped and had black women when they wanted.
So it's a psychological thing.

it's ****** payback time LOL

and about the prettier babies ....i would have to say that's affirmative. people with mixed races are much more beautiful.... i find

2006-08-09 14:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by GNOSIS 3 · 0 0

ya some white beezys r fine as hellz

2006-08-10 09:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by philafan4o8 2 · 0 0

THAT IS TOTAL HYPOCRISY

2006-08-09 14:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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