I am a married young women who has a problem. When I met my husband I fell hard really quick but he was getting a divorce so I waited on the side lines and we became really good friends. I could tell him everything. we ended up getting married and now the relationship isn't the same. I was hoping that it would get better but we have grown apart. I love him but I'm not in love anymore. We cant talk anymore with out a fight and theres alot that he has done that I can not forgive. What do I do?
2006-08-09 13:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by envisiondreaming 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am going through the same thing. I am 23 been married for almost 5 years. I was told that marriage goes through seasons. Maybe it is just a bad one right now. Ever heard the song " Is There Life Out There " By Reba... It fits.... However marriage is a commitment and we have got to stick with it. Think back to what you really feel in love with. Try and find that again.If you need anything else e-mail and we can give each other encouragment!
2006-08-09 14:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by flowersandhearts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I thought I was the only one. It's a really hard situation. I'm there myself. However, I was told to wait it out. Maybe things will fix themseves. My case is a little different cause I have a baby. Some people just tell you to leave him, not trying to understand the situation. If your not in love anymore, that means that the magic, the spark is gone. Meaning that there problly isn't anything left. I know it's hard to forgive, I've not yet done that. But if you really love him and want things to work, you will try. Recently, I learned that life is short so Live life to the fullest. If you want to make it work then you will find a way. If not, just go. You shouldn't live life in regret, so think things though. I would try to get through to him first. I know it's not much help, but I hope things work out for the best. email if you want to talk more in depth. Good Luck
2006-08-09 21:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess...he has a new girlfriend on the side. Hmmmm. fancy that, who would have possibly thought that? Do you really think you are the only one he has done this to? And do you really think you can work this out? IF so, you are in serious need of help, as in a strong does of reality. HELLO, EARTH!
Get your butt out of this mess, call a lawyer, sue for alimony and get it! And for god's sake, stay away from married men, divorce or not...believe nothing until it is proven in this game. Good luck
2006-08-09 21:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was going through a divorce and was rebounding with you - then you two got married --- then he realizes ---- he wasn't ready to be married....he'd acted out of loneliness and hurt... you responded to being needed and offered comfort and moral support ... it felt good and then you married him. Now there's no crisis --- just you and him ---- and you two aren't even in love .... loneliness brought you together and reality is tearing you apart..... you two can try marriage counseling and see if there's a solution other than divorce.
2006-08-09 22:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only mattes if you r happy...but talk to him before you do any thing Crazy like leave him..hey he might just feel the same way.. u do so talk and then try to find a solution to your problem together..Good Luck
2006-08-09 21:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by HaHa Thats Funny!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's fighting and not doing things, and you have given him chances, you should break up. i know it's hard, but you don't want to spend the rest of your life with a man like that.
2006-08-09 20:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by julesrules714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to leave hon. Get on with your life, and find your soulmate. Good luck !
2006-08-09 21:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋