2006-08-09 13:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by Bren0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Quit feeling sorry for yourself!
OMG, are you really this weak?
Get some confidence and actually BE YOURSELF and not
what "they" want you to be and then, and only then, you will
find the person you seek!
2006-08-09 13:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's called RESPECT! Respect for who you are, what you believe and where you are going. It begins with friendship---without friendship there cannot be a future! during the friendship period you would know whether or not you have the same beliefs and dreams---we are talking about your future---where do you see yourself in 5 to 10 years? how about 20 years from then? can you truly say that in the lifestyle and desires you have this person can be a part of??? and what about him?? what are his plans for the future----where is he going---how long will it take him to begin his course?
These answers are vital---it lets you know how to handle this friendship.
And don't fool yourself! There is NO such thing as "casual" without consequences!!! Stay away from promiscuity! and any "i love you" lines! If it is LOVE then Respect would be there! The Greatest wedding present you could ever give yourself is to wait ---there is no other!!! naked and unashamed is the best wedding gift you could give each other!!!
i know, i did it right!
and i know others who didn't---it doesn't matter how much time you've been together---if you have premarital sex---there is guilt and a "missing" feeling after the vows do come!!!
2006-08-09 14:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby its called life. Life is never a straight road to anything. Sometimes you hit detours. You are going to run into alot of bad people before you meet the one that is meant for you. It is going to feel very very bad for awhile and that hurt won't go away immediately it does take time. But while you are going the bad relationships make sure you come out with a lesson learned. Good luck on your situation.
2006-08-09 13:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are feeling so sad and lonely. Please go out to do things you love to do. You will be happiest and most confident when you are doing the things you love. When you least expect it, you'll meet a special someone.
Best wishes from a grandma-aged person
2006-08-09 13:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT FEEL LONELY you are a human and Im sure that you have someone out there. I had this feeling and now I feel loves and cared about. I meat my boyfriend and now we have 2 years of dating and Im more than happy. Girl dont feel bad!
2006-08-09 13:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by shorty Peraza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you. My husband loves me just the way I am. He has never tried to make me be someone I'm not.
On the other hand, I tried to make him be someone he wasn't because he was so much different than me. It almost cost me my relationship and I decided it wasn't worth it and let things be.
We have been married for 10 years now and I just laugh at his differences and let them go.
I'm sure you will find a great person in life.
2006-08-09 13:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may or may not find someone. You should try to learn to be OK on your own and then it wont matter so much. The world is a very big place, so if you really want to find her, better get out and looking. Hope you'll be OK anyway - good luck XX
2006-08-09 13:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by lennylil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you want everyhting to happen like a fairy tale...Just you hang in there. If it isn't happening yet, give it time. It will. And don't think it's your problem...maybe it's the other person or maybe things just weren't right for either. Worse things could be happening when you think about it...Be happy!
2006-08-09 13:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to look around and follow the dating rules
2006-08-09 13:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey hang in there u will find someone dont give up the right one will come along for u
2006-08-09 13:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋