What do you do when the person you go to when you cry is the person who made you cry?
2006-08-09 13:27:55 · 21 answers · asked by daydreamer 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That's the worst, isn't it? It's always the people we care about most who hurt us the most.
I think you have three choices here.
1. See if you have another friend or person you can talk to who can be a good listener and help you feel better.
2. If the reason the person made you cry is something that can be fixed, talk to that person. Sometimes they don't even realize what they did.
3. Just cry. Sometimes crying alone can be okay, too. You can get it all out and not worry about looking or sounding silly to anyone else. Then, once you're all done crying, write down all your thoughts just so you can get them out.
Cheer up!
2006-08-09 13:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by CurlyGirl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a silly question. You go to someone else if you need to talk. Not to the person who made you cry! Sooner or later the person will get tired of all the crying that you say they caused and really wont care when the tears fall. So like I said, pick a new person to cry to.
2006-08-09 20:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lori T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still go to the person who you made you cry and see if you can work it out
2006-08-09 20:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by kukkeeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry to some one else, and tell the person who made you cry to screw off.
2006-08-09 20:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by sportigrl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what else is there to do- he made you cry, you go to him - so just cry your heart out. maybe the benefits of this, he will see how much he hurt you and wont ever do it again.... maybe...
2006-08-09 20:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, the person must be dear to you, for your feeling to run deep enough to draw tears. First think if what was said, was meant to hurt you or was it the truth...... And that hurt you. If it was the truth that hurt,, get used to it, the truth always seems to come out. If he/she meant to hurt you, think about moving on, someone who really cares about you would never hurt you on purpose.
2006-08-09 21:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by NrmS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is making you cry on purpose, they don't care about you. If it was unintentional, maybe you can talk it out.
2006-08-09 20:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop crying to them and boot their azz out!
2006-08-09 20:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and keep going the opposite direction.
2006-08-10 23:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a parent? A mean boy friend.
Get a new friend?
2006-08-09 20:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋