ok i really need help?

Question

I HAVE A BROTHER WHO ALWAYS HITS ME.AND THEN HE THREATENS THAT IF I TELL MY PARENTS THEN MY FACE WILL GET REDDER (YEAH HE SLAPPED ME REAL HARD TODAY).AND IF I RAT HIM OUT TO MY PARENTS,HE WILL HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO HIT ME AGIAN BASED ON MY PARENT'S SCHEDULE.WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT HIM?PLEASE HELP?AND PLEASE DON'T SAY RAT HIM OUT TO MY PARENTS BECAUSE TRUST ME I TRIED IT IT DOES'NT WORK.

Answer 1

get a big jar of vasoline and put it all over the tub and the shower wall...I mean everywhere...when that dirty b@$t@rd gets in the shower he will be floppin around like a fish...my brother got out and came to my room all black and blue, I looked him dead in the eye and told him there is plenty more wher that came from and next time you hit me you better not fall asleep and I hope you think I am joking. he has never laid another hand on me...sometime a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do and girl you gotta stop his abuse. good luck!!

Answer 2

How old are you? If your parents can't seem to do anything about it, I would say tell a teacher or school counselor. If they don't do anything, then I would say go to the police. They will most likely pull you out and put you (or your brother) in foster care (they might also send your brother to those camps they send troublesome boys, depending on how bad the situation is).

You could try just bottling up the rage, but that might not be a good idea. You'll most likely grow bitter at your brother, and hate him for the rest of your life, which is definitely something you don't want if you can avoid it.

I want to say "boys will be boys", but I don't know how old you two are (when they hit like 14-15+, then they usually grow out of it. If not, then they probably have issues themselves that your parents need to help them with).

Beyond that, I don't know what to suggest (and no, don't kill your brother, or cause any other bodily harm to him. Prove that your the bigger, more mature person).

Answer 3

Your brother is abusing you and you must find a responsible adult who can help you. Can you talk to a counselor at your school? Or the parent of a friend? You need someone who can help you convince your parents that this situation is unacceptable. If your parents know that he hits you but they continue to leave you alone with him, they are part of the problem. Is there somewhere else you could be when your parents are not at home: the library, a friend's house? It is important not just for your sake but for your brother's sake that this problem be addressed. If your brother will hit you, he may hit other people and end up in big trouble or under arrest. Do not let your brother continue to bully you. Get help and find a way to get away from him as much as possible until he gets the help he needs.

Answer 4

Parents have a hard time believing one of their children are psychotic.

You have to bring in a third party, someone outside the family. I would tell your parents first exactly what has been happening and tell them of the threats of retaliation and also tell them exactly what you will do if it does not stop.

I would make some phone calls. First to the police, Im totally serious even though they may not be able to help you.. they will have to right a report. They will also direct you to the people that can help. You have a right to live your life without violence from your brother, you should also be aware that your brother hitting you is a sign of abuse that has also happend to him at some point, and this type of behavior may lead to sexual assult if it is allowed to continue. In other words its not going to get better someday.. it will get worse.

Do you know if your father has ever hit your brother?
Is your father on drugs or an alcoholic?
Is verbal abuse by either of your parents prevalent in your family?
Was your brother ever sexually asulted by a parent or close family relative?

you dont need to answer me. just think about those questions and what answers they have.. if any answer is yes, then you know what is causing your brothers abuse to you. Its time to go above your parents head and get help before it gets worse..

goodluck

Answer 5

Is there an obvious argument that precedes the hitting? You might request your parents to put a lock on your door. It would be prudent to stay away from your brother, if possible. I also wonder if your parents just don't believe your brother hits you. That is a real problem if you feel no one is on your side. Is there a teacher or a counselor you can confide in? I don't know enough to say do this or do that, but you do need to talk with someone you trust.

Answer 6

I'm with 'windseeker'. If you keep leaving enough hints to you parents then there is no way that he could consider you ratting him out. Just keep letting them know. Like, soon.
Make strange eye contact with them when he is around and can't see you doing it.
Start ducking like you are headshy everytime he comes near you and your parents can see. But make sure they see this before you do it. Otherwise he will think that you are setting him up. Unless you already are headshy.
If it is already to the point the you are ducking.....then all of this has gone too far.
So keep asking your parents if you can go somewhere else whenever you are alone with him.
Hopefully your parents will get the 'hints' (and I'm talking about giving them REALLY big hints).
Sometimes they need a little help looking at things that they need help seeing.
Do not let this get worse.
good luck
Don't like rats either ....BUT,.....really don't like getting slapped and pushed and punched around.
Maybe you could do charades to let your parents know...
You really need to tell someone. Like a counselor at school. Or a friends mom. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
You really are better than that.
Keep your chin up and get your message out. You have alot of good ways to do it from all of the answers that you've gotten.
Calling the police sometimes makes things worse than they have to be.
Take care of yourself!

Answer 7

Right now you need to grow up a little. Have your parents and him sit down and tell them everything that's going on. Tell them right in front of him. This is a set up for abuse in your future believe it or not. If you allow him to get away with this then when your soon to be boyfriend start hitting on you, you will think that it's ok not to tell anyone and allow the abuse to continue. Also let them know that you refuse to stay home alone with him. Further more let him know that the next time he puts his hands on you you will report him to the police even if he is a minor and your brother. Women that allow abuse from a partner or spouse is women that have been abuse from child hood (somtimes). The most common source of abuse start with a family member or close friend. Hope this helps

Answer 8

Talk to someone you can trust and will listen to you, get them to go to the police with you. This is abuse and you shouldn't have to suffer it. if you let it carry on, you will be really mentally damaged (if you aren't already), and will probably end up in a relationship where the man hits you, and if he isn't stopped, he will be in a relationship where he hits the woman. Someone could end up dead! You don't deserve it, and it's not your fault. He isn't right in the head and must be stopped. Stay with other family members if your parents don't care enough to make sure you are safe and happy.

Answer 9

Call the police,or confide in a counselor at school to tell your parents. One thing I bet that if your parents ignored it before,they will pay attention now. If you don't feel safe stay with a friend or family member. Maybe you can confide in a family member. Telling your parents IS the right thing to do,you just don't want to and you need to.

Answer 10

Call the cops and get a lawyer then sue your parents for being morons. There are always 3 sides to a story, yours, his and the truth. You best be telling the truth young lady or you could get into a lot of trouble with the law.