I have a 5 month old and another on the way.....I'm 17 and I havent told my mom yet about the other baby......any Ideas on how to do that??
2006-08-09 13:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I was on bc when i got preg this time...
2006-08-09 13:23:56 · update #1
I am going to bring this one in to the world, but my mom said if I got preg again she would kick me out....and I raise my own child, my mom dosent..
2006-08-09 13:25:32 · update #2
I am thinking about getting the shot, after this baby, or should i ask my doc about some other kind of bc?
2006-08-09 13:40:59 · update #3
Well, you're only 17 and already having another child..how did your mom react when you first told her about the first baby? I think you should tell her the same way you told her about the first child. cuz you can't hide about it forever, because you stomache's gonna get bigger. just tell her the truth.
I'd like the say the next time you have sex, use precautions.
2006-08-09 13:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! You're 17! Put this baby up for adoption, DO NOT KILL IT! Allow this other baby to grow up in a house with a committed mom AND dad who are ready for it. Afterwards, have your tubes tied. You can have more babies later if you decide to, and not worry about creating yet another child.
Tell your mom you've decided to give a yearning couple the most amazing thing in the world; a child to love and raise.
2006-08-09 23:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, get the shot and give this second baby up for adoption. that's how you should tell your mom.
why are you even having sex when you are single with a five month old? do you have any clue at all that you are building a shitty life for your child? and now you've created another one! Jesus, girl, this is real life and you are destroying the futures of children before you even become an adult! you must stop behaving so horribly irresponsible.
not only are you screwing up both your kids lives, you are going to foist on society two screwed up kids! thanks so much.
please, get serious, give your second baby up, and maybe your first, too. before 8 months, that should be okay.
seriously, what is on your mind? how can you be so careless with the fate of another being?
2006-08-10 01:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey Mom - you only thought I was stupid. Here's proof!"
Do you think your parents don't have anything better to do than raise your kids for you? Didn't you learn anything the first time?
Still, you've got to tell her. Having another baby so soon after the last one puts you at a lot of risk medically. You need to get into a doctor ASAP.
2006-08-09 20:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by mom2babycolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to judge you that's the first what I want to tell you because everyone makes mistakes .But one day it will come out anyway you won't stay skinny forever so the best thing is just to tell her the truth.I don't even now if you live with your partner or with out him but in the future would be wise to thing about some protection because you don't wanna have a baby every year because you need to support your children and study to be something or find a job not just depend on your mum she won't be here forever.Good luck and thing about your future.
2006-08-09 20:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by m41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Continue to take contraceptives in the future after numebr 2 if you do not want anymore but tell her what happened getting pregnant on contraceptives. it does happen. Wow, that is alot to deal with having 2 within close age range. Tell her and be honest with her. Make her a dinner that included baby peas or baby carrots and slowy drop her hints that way maybe. All the best to you!
2006-08-09 20:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by yeppers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you keep your legs closed? You are ruining your life. Have you ever heard of protection? If you like being a mom and the father actually helps out, then I am happy for you. I just hope that the babies will get everything they need.
2006-08-09 23:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Where's the father? He's responsible for the baby too. If he's not willing to help, you can have parental support imposed on his parents (if he's under 18) or him directly. Good luck! Just tell your mom. Chances are she just told you she would kick you out so you wouldn't get preggo again. If she loves you or her grandchildren, she won't do that.
2006-08-09 21:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... depending on how far along you are... I would consider terminating the pregnancy. If you're set on bringing another child into your life when you probably aren't completely responsible for the one you already have then I would just tell her straight up.
You're pregnant again.... Hellooooo????
2006-08-09 20:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be too suprised since you already have one. I'd just tell her. After this one is born, get on birth control.
2006-08-09 20:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋