I am having sex with two married men and I am married I am nnow preggy and don't know who the daddy is Help!!

Answer 1

Please tell me this is a joke! Can there seriously be anyone alive who's that irresponsible, yet still capable of forming (almost-full) sentences?

Answer 2

Wow, not only did you mess up your marriage, you could be messing up two others. I hope you're proud of yourself you whore!! Tell your husband what you've done and get a DNA test. That's the LEAST thing you can do. And tell the other two guys they may be the fathers of this child you are pregnant with. I would also advise you to learn how to form 2 separate sentences. And one more thing...I can not STAND it when people call being pregnant anything another than being PREGNANT("preggy, preggo, etc,) Being pregnant is a beautiful thing and it just shouldn't be called anything else. Not only that, I've looked at other guys, but theres no way in hell I'd disrespect my husband enough to go cheating on him.

Answer 3

You are either a liar, or so far out in left field as to be beyond help. On the off chance that you are actually presenting a real situation, I suggest you dump everybody, including Hubby. Find a place that does paternity testing, and try for a bulk discount. Assuming that you are going to keep the baby, perhaps you should let the father raise it. You seem just a little too flighty to have the responsibility of a child.

Answer 4

What is this crowd of answerer's seeming so shocked about? At least 2 of the 28 are illegitimate children and don't know it. It happens more often than people realize. According to the Kinsey reports it is natural selection process going on here. If you can't stop the primal urges then at least use good contraception. I would say nothing and if the child looks anything like the supporting father then everyone will still be happy including the child.

Answer 5

I'm not sure I understand what exactly it is you need help with. First of all, why are you cheating on your husband? Are you not happy in your marriage? If you're not then get a divorce. I know it sounds simpler than it is, but you've got to. What's the point of being with someone who isn't making you happy and is driving you to the point of sleeping with TWO other men? If you truly loved your husband you wouldn't have even considered sleeping with another man. Second of all, If you're going to mess up your marriage, why would you want to do it to other women? For all you know those married men that you're sleeping with could have children. Why would you want to hurt children? Maybe they don't have children, but just think about it. Third of all, as for finding out who the father is, do a DNA testing, and while you're doing that you should come clean. Let the married men decide if they're going to tell their wives, but you should tell your husband. Who knows maybe it will end up being his child and maybe he'll take you back. I don't know because I don't know the whole story. I'm not sure if I helped you at all, I tried to, but just think about my advice okay? It might help you. Good Luck! ~honeybfly Oh yeah! And if you aren't happy in your marriage, but you still want to stay with your husband, maybe you could try marriage counseling. Just a thought.

Answer 6

Whoa have you made a tangled web. What the hell were you thinking would happen in this mess? Basically, youre in deep poopoo and no easy way out. A divorce or two is coming once this breaks unless you lie to your husband and say its his. It might just be. If not and a DNA test proves otherwise you could be on your own and no legal leg to stand on. You can try and sue in court but there wont be much sympathy from the judge. Good chance you will definitely lose your marriage unless you elect to lie and save your marriage and if you do you will have to live with this forever. Hope you learned from this

Answer 7

What is up with people saying, "Don't tell your husband." HELLO! How is that fair for the husband to think the child is his? What happens when the child comes out with blue eyes and blonde hair and "daddy" has brown eyes and black hair? I think he'll start to get a clue when the kid looks nothing like him.

You need to be honest with everyone involved. You're going to have difficulty with that obviously because you can't even be honest with your husband on having an affair. Take a paternity test as soon as you can.

Answer 8

My personal opinion.....I am wondering.. WHY, DID YOU GET MARRIED, IF YOU WAS NOT DONE SEWING YOUR WILD OATS.? . You should of thought of all of these possibities that could happen before hand, just in case it may happen, which it obviously did. Whats wrong with birth control and condems ???
Also, Its not the poor little baby;s fault all of this happen. So for the baby's sake...... I personally feel, everyone born should know who there real biological father.
I am sure one day in the child's life he/she would like to know.
What they do with this knowledge of information when they are of age is up to him or her, as to who their real father is.
Only God knows, of the future as if they may need this information for medical /health issues in his or her life.
I do believe the child should know and also the biological father of that child.
Who knows, the child is the one that may help out the father one day with a medical or health issue too.
Who knows but God, that they may save one anothers life one day.
There is no doubt you have many worries on your shoulders now, or you would not be asking this question.
Why not unload some of them..... and have some dignity for yourself and the baby and be up front and honest to all of these men.? Why should you be the only one to sweat it? These men had just as much fun as you did. And it does take 2 but only 1 to straighten it out too.

Now that you are pregnant my concern and LOVE would ALL go for the baby. It is now depending all on you.
The baby is the only one that counts now.

And by all means... no matter what... have a DNA TEST, DONE!!
No sense in complicating things more than they already are.

Might lose your marriage but thats the plently of sneaking around. I hope it was worth it, in the end.

But above all......Be up front and honest with yourself and do the right thing, for the baby.

I think you already know though what the answer to this question is...... don't you ? Be Honest with all these men and to yourself.

Well CONGRADULATIONS on the New Sweet Little baby.
Above all, please go get a DNA TEST, done.
For yourself, the baby and all these Daddy's.

Best Wishes and Good Luck... Carol in Ohio..

Answer 9

After reading almost every answer so far I have not read anyone telling you to get an abortion, and I am not suggesting that either. This baby did not ask to be born, nor is asking to be killed.

Gather your strengths, and tell your husband. He deserves to know the truth. Tell your lovers they should know. Ask them to get tested for STD's also (you should too). Get the DNA test as soon as the baby is out. The baby at least deserves to know who his/her biological father is.

What to do now? Get in touch with your doctor, seek counseling from a professional (minister, priest, psychiatrist, attorney, etc.).

Make some personal decisions (Marriage, cheating, Family). Good luck.

Answer 10

You are disgusting, and a poor excuse to the female race! You should be ashamed of yourself!

I feel bad for your husband, not to mention the 2 wives that you and your 2 men friends have been deceiving!

Theres no way you can keep it quiet any longer, get it out in the open, and I hope you end up alone!

Answer 11

What ever happened to using the brains that God has given to us. Have you ever heard of being loyal to our spouse, using protection? Damn if your gonna cheat at least cover your tracks. All your doing is f**cking yourself. No one really cares now because the fun is all over and the decision making is all up to you now. Hope you do the right thing, whatever you think it may be. And for the sake of all marred women, stay away from their husbands and keep your legs closed. Keep in mind that it is you who got yourself in this predicament. Whatever your reasons were i hope that it was some banging *** sex because you sure are paying for it now even if you didn't get paid for it.