okay this girl has serious problems. shes in my class and everyone in it thinks shes weird okay including me... but that was until today when i actally started talking to her.
she has divorced parents. and seh gets really really scared when they fight shes scared of teachers because of things in the past and shes scared of cars, she doesnt' like noisy places either. shes been picked on her whole life and she writes really mean stuff about her self but says that somone else is doing it.
i really want to help her out i gave her my number and told her i want to be her friend. i want to help her sooo much but i don't know what to do. im really worried about her.
2006-08-09 12:51:57 · 12 answers · asked by iLoVeKeELo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH MY GOD!
i think i know how she feels.
i have been picked on to not untill today
i have a divorced parents and one of them are dead.
and i have a heart breaking situation too.i wasnt pretty or smart nor funny i wasnt talented...so i was the main target to be picked on.i used to tell dad i was stupid and the most hideous person in the world.but i discovered somthing.
you should be friends with her and make her the real person she didnt notice.
make her feel so special take her places...people like her havent been to many places.show people that shes popluar too
2006-08-09 13:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to applaud you for trying to help her. So far you are on the right track by wanting to be a friend. A word of warning is be sure that this relationship stays healthy. Know that you can't and won't be able to solve all of her problems. In addition to you, I believe that you should also direct her to a counselor. That way there is someone else to share the load. Good Luck.
2006-08-09 12:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this one most of the kids that shot up people at school or held them hostage was people like her having problems at home so you keep an eye out for her if she's writing stuff about pain I would let the counselors know that she has problems that need to be addressed...before it's too late ..It's good you want to help her but you can only do so much!!!
2006-08-09 12:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a little like you're friend. The crazy one, the one everyone pitied.
People would always talk to me out of charity (and because I was the smart one and let them copy my homework.) The thing is, I could always tell when it was charity, and I guarantee she can too. It's not that I wanted everyone to be mean, and talk about me like I wasn't even in the room like some people did. It's just that I would have been happier if they could at least pretend I was normal and not go out of their way to make up for my "flaws." In a way, I still resent a bunch of people who meant well for it. Be nice to her, but the nicest thing you can do is treat her just like you would anyone else.
2006-08-09 13:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by answerator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sweet. You can help her out by being a good friend to her. Sounds like she has had a rough life, she needs a good friend. If she is writing mean stuff about herself ask her if you could read it and then point out the good in her.
2006-08-09 12:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by chicamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just needs a friend to talk to and to motivate into someone better for herself first.A nice makeup party will probably be for the best for to do as friends to one another.Thats cute when friends do each other hair ,makeup and nails.
2006-08-09 12:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i think thatt was a really nice thing to do but all i can say is just offer your slef to her because thats the only thing you can do and just try to be her friend and be there 4 her
2006-08-09 12:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be seriuos with some of those problems a school physiatric may be gpood with some of those probs, but thats cool you want to be her friend hope its not pity and real friendship. way to go
2006-08-09 12:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being her friend is good enough... there really isn't much to do. try to help her out with her fears and invite her over to your house once in a while.
2006-08-09 13:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very admirable
Be aware that this girls will challenge you, so always try to be kind to her, but she also needs some straightforward talk occaisionally.
2006-08-09 12:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋