2006-08-09 12:33:01 · 37 answers · asked by sandysexylegs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We were married for 10 years and he had had 3 affairs and this last affair was with a woman that is 8 years older. I am 35 attractive and thin. He tells me that she wasn't good in bed, but he couldn't stop the affair after 3 1/2 years until we divorced and she started accusing him of cheating on her. But she was still married. Now tell me why?
2006-08-09 12:50:14 · update #1
Men who are secure in their masculinity like older women.
Insecure men want only younger women because they think they are easier to control.
2006-08-09 12:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its usually the experience but some like the mother figure that will treat them like babies. Some have the macho idea that they are mature beyond their age and loder woman are one way to prove it. Older woman have less baggage and appreciate it more. There is alot of reasons for why guys do the things they do and no one will ever understand why and this happens to be one of them, but experience probably ranks as the first and lesser chance of a kind of relationship is next. But then there are the exceptions, couples who actually fall in love despite the age barrier, but who knows what drew them together in the first place
2006-08-09 12:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of older women don't play games. Normally we already have a car, house, & careers, and I think we have stibility so alot of times we don't need a man for that. I myself am 31(but I look about 25 everyone says) and I have been in relationships (in the past) with guys that were as young as 22 and they ALWAYS said how they like women who know what they want and are more mature. But I really don't know thats just what I've heard.
2006-08-09 12:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Hot Chocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man. A guy with some saavy and street smarts knows that an older woman is comfortable with her sexuality and won't give him the headaches a younger woman does. She's also usually financially and emotionally independant, which makes a similarly situated man more attracted to her.
2006-08-09 12:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer the younger ladies myself but older ladies would rather put out than get kicked out. They aren't so uptight about sex or they are divorced and horny and lonely. Basically it equates to getting laid easier. Older ladies generally know more around the bedroom because they have logged more hours and what old lady doesn't want to hump a younger stud?
Like i said I prefer girls around in their early 20's. I still will too even when i am 40. Booya!!
2006-08-09 12:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't yell, they don't swell, they don't tell and they're thankful as hell. Actually an older woman will have sex because they want to. No baggage or hidden agendas. If they find the man attractive to them and they have the urge they will probably follow through.
2006-08-09 13:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by gearhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young men like older women and older men like younger women
2006-08-09 12:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 10 years and 1 month older than my man!
He had his fun with the younguns (20s)and now he wants a grownup, I guess.
2006-08-09 12:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Older women are like their mothers in a way. They take care of them like little boys.
2006-08-09 12:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought they liked em younger, I guess older women might have More experience in certain things I guess.
2006-08-09 12:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by chicamexicana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋