I haven't seen my daughter in 7 years and she called and said she was moving back in with me?

Question

the next day she called frantically needing money to travel here. She moved to Seattle when she was 16 with my ex husband and it was all downhill from there. My ex moved out there to live with an old gf and he took my daughter with him. My daughter was too hard to handle for me and she went to live with her dad. The next thing I know is he's moving to Washington. After the move she got into drugs and her dad and gf kicked her out of the house. She dropped out of school and has been living "who Knows where" ever since.The gf of my ex called me a few years ago and told me that my daughter was on methamphetamines and needed help. Since then, I haven't heard anything, except this recent phone call. Her dad told me he sent her money to get home.
That was about a week ago, but she will be delayed because she used the money to take her cat to the vet. She also has a bf who is "part of the Package". Should I let them live in my house and do you think they are on drugs?

Answer 1

I would give her a chance and if she blew it then she would have to go, if she is on drugs try and get her help and if she doesn't except the help all you can say is you tried...........

Answer 2

Yes. The young lady of 23 years is still my daughter. For the last 5 to 7 years I presume she has not received proper guidance. I feel she may have a drug problem (overlooked by her negligent father) which I wiil attempt to assist with. In no way what so ever is her boyfriend welcome. Hence, if she shows up alone we can work together to build a future. If she shows up with her boyfriend the deal is off.

Answer 3

If you can afford it, give them a couple of weeks in an extended stay hotel. That's long enough for them to get on thier feet financially if they plan to do that. If they don't, you don't have them under your roof.

Answer 4

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