Even though I'm only 12 (about to turn 13 in October), My breasts are very small. I'm still in a training bra (32AA) and my other friends have much bigger breasts. I do have a boyfriend, and he says that I'm really pretty, and no boys make fun of me, but I just need bigger breasts for self confidence. I don't have my period yet, so I do have time to grow, but I don't wanna wait until I'm like 18!
2006-08-09 11:52:58 · 41 answers · asked by Urs 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Oh my god, that is disgusting. What the heck are twelve year olds doing with boyfriends? Why are twelve year olds talking about their boobs with their boyfriends?! Let your body and mind mature, please, for your sake.
2006-08-11 21:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gab 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Some girls go into puberty and begin breast development much slower than others. That obviously doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, but the way nature works. I think that if guys think you are pretty and they do not make fun of you, you shouldn't be worrying so much. I honestly don't think you will have to wait until you are 18 to see your breasts start to develop. Something else to consider is that breast size has a lot to do with hereditary. If your Mom and/or sisters have larger breasts then you will most likely have them too. For now, just have fun girl.. you have a long wonderful life ahead of you!
2006-08-09 12:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're 12... what are you doing in here???
Next, you're 12, what are you worrying about the size of your breasts for??
Next, you have a boyfriend? At 12? And you're discussing your breasts with him???
You DO NOT NEED BIGGER BREASTS FOR SELF CONFIDENCE! Self confidence does not come from the size of your breasts or the size of a guy's penis.
You are incredibly immature and have a lot of growing up and maturing to do. You are already focused on the wrong things and you really need to talk with your mom!
2006-08-09 11:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by grahamma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 12 years old, you are way to young to be so concerned about breasts! Puberty will hit soon, and they will change. Your size isn't that out of the ordinary for a girl your age, especially if your mother isn't very large. Having very large breasts is no fun either, because then boys only stare at you and make you self-concious, girls are mean to you because they are jealous, and you can get back or shoulder problems from big breasts. I know this from experience, because I was a 36B by the time I was your age. It was awful because guys never looked me in the eye... they always stared at my chest.
Don't be in such a hurry to grow up... you will far too soon as it is.
2006-08-09 12:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Georgia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly my heart goes out to you. I am glad that your boyfriend affirms that you are pretty; I agree with your statement that you're only 12 and still young and growing.
People grow at different rates, boys as well as girls. I realize you may not believe this, but I highly doubt that having larger breasts will help your confidence because even girls and women with larger breasts have trouble with their self-esteem.
Please try to accept yourself for who you are and as you are. Although I've never met you, I know this, you are a person of great worth but not because of how you look or how well you do at school, or because of any one thing that describes or defines you.
You are a person, you were given to a family, the fact that you are living and breathing and, I trust, greatly loved by others, these are all other reasons that you are a person of worth. It isn't a good idea to compare yourself to others as there are always others who are lesser and greater than each of us.
I don't know if you know about GOD or Jesus or the Holy Spirit, if you attend church or are Christian but even if you are nonChristian, GOD loves you and He planned for you to be much as you are now. Don't lose heart and please remember that you are special whether or not other people tell you that.
All the best to you!
Patrick
2006-08-09 12:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need bigger breast for self confidence, you should love yourself as you are and all things will come in time. Also when you get your period your breast should grow bigger, but if it don't don't get upset, small breast is due to genetics so it is not your fault. Just be grateful about the things you do have, like your pretty and you have friends.
2006-08-09 12:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're lucky!
Trust me... big boobs aren't the only kind that look good. I used to be "Head chairperson of the itty bitty tittie committee" and now I'm an unfortunate DD. It sucks.
You're lucky... you don't have to wear a bra, really, if you don't want to. I would KILL to be able to wear backless shirts and stuff.
You don't need big boobs!
PS-- I was an A for a long time, and then all of a sudden when I was 18 I went from a B to a D. Don't worry... you still have plenty of time to grow.
2006-08-09 12:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth L J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you won't have to wait until you are 18. Just remember everyone matures at different rates. Having small breasts at your age is normal even if it doesn't seem like it to you. Just be patient. They will grow long before 18.
2006-08-09 12:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by andeegi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think by having bigger breasts you will have more self confidence you won't . who you are is not determined by the size of your chest. men's obsession with big ones. its a shame that at 13 you feel less than because you don't think you're 'big enough'. you are a smart, sweet young lady and don't buy into that lie....don't have some doctor carve you up and put in fake ones because they won't be enough either....learn to love yourself for who you are not some bag hanging from your rib cage.
2006-08-09 12:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too stinking bad. Waaa. Let's all cry for you. You'll get boobs when your gosh darn boobs feel like growing. Relax you've got time and if your boyfriend thinks your hot fine. I was a 32AA till like 8th grade now I'm a 32B. So stop moaning and ask some real questions.
2006-08-09 11:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by armwrestlemania 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age, I said to myself the same thing. But don't wish too hard - I'm 16 now and I'm a borderline C cup. You can't really speed up puberty, and you shouldn't need boobs to boost your confidence. I'm sure there's something about you that can boost your self-confidence besides boobs.
2006-08-09 11:58:58 · answer #11 · answered by IncoherencyIsFutile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋