i've always wanted to know if it hurt to lose ur virginity. so can i please know?
2006-08-09 11:47:05 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmm...how can I explain this to u simply?
Your vagina is a muscle. After it has been closed for so many years (never being opened, keep in mind), it's hole is basically the size of a pea, if not smaller, covered by a thin layer of skin. When you lose your vaginity, the HARD penis, which is about the size of a dill pickle (maybe bigger) is inserted into your hole. Not only does that skin rip, which causes you to bleed, but that large, hard muscle is forcing your itty-bitty muscle to expand.
So...
Yes, it hurts...
But once u get past the pain, it is the best feeling you will ever experience.
But please keep in mind: you only lose your virginity once. And once you lost it, you'll never get it back. So, please, be extemely careful with who you give it to. Make sure that they will cherish your gift for the rest of their lives.
2006-08-09 11:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't hurt me, my twin sister said she was in excruciating pain. Your body is the most precious thing you can offer anyone and you can only give it for the first time ONCE. You have a whole lot of time to find out the answer to that question so wait until you are older, self sufficient and ready to commit the rest of your life to your child, you never know what can happen. Make darn good and sure that the guy is worth the potential pain not to mention the possible complications.
2006-08-09 11:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it hurts! Don't believe any myths that say that it doesn't.
I mean, it's a piece of tissue that is getting ripped. Not to scare you of, it doesn't hurt THAT much. It's just cause it's a different sensation and it's new. You'll probably be a bit sore the first time. But you'll be fine the next time, you'll enjoy it quite a bit (if it's with the right guy and all).
Hope I answered your question.
Ciao!!
2006-08-09 11:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by tinatana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Not necessarily so,
If the hymen is still intact it can.
When you do have sex try to get a partner who knows how to please a woman and goes slowly with you.
If he is gentle it can be a pleasurable experience. Remember lots of foreplay and lubrication.
And use condoms to prevent sexually transmitted diseases like HIV and chlamydia. Condoms can help in preventing pregnancy
When you drink alcohol or get high your inhibitions may be loosened and you may wind up having sex with someone you don't really like.
If a guy says he doesn't want to use a condom then it is about his pleasure not yours and forget him.
Don't be so eager to lose your virginity. Wait until you meet someone that cares about you and that you care enough of about to share that with him.
2006-08-09 11:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'm a male but it usually hurts to get mey thang into a virgin. So I like em allready broke in but still tight. My girlfriend clamps down on my penis when she cums & that nearly breaks me in half. Thats VERY painful. So you dont just have to be a lil girl to feel pain!! Sometime girls hurt guys too!
2006-08-09 11:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hymen is intact, it will hurt the first time. How badly depends on how quickly your partner gains entry, and how much tolerance to pain you have. If you have used tampons or ridden horses or bikes a lot, your hymen might have already been ruptured, so then it might not hurt the first time.
2006-08-09 11:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are different but for most it hurts and for some other people it dont hurt it depends on your body. I know for experience because before i lost it peopl told me how much it hurt but when i lost it it didnt hurt at all
2006-08-09 11:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by bxshorty064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its different for everyone. i know girls who experienced no pain at all (like myself) and others who swear it was the most painful thing ever. and you do not necessarily bleed the first time, either. bleeding is caused when the hymen is broken. if your hymen is already broken (breaking of the hymen can be caused by a lot of things, like falling off your bike when you are younger, for example), then you won't bleed or there can be very little amounts of blood. it can also depend on the size of your partners penis and the WAY you make love. there are many factors.
2006-08-09 11:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by lndsuedelvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how loose you are. If you have had experience with dildos then it probably shouldn't. Also if you guy is really big it will hurt and if he doesn't know what he is doing and pushes as hard as he can it will hurt. If he is a tiny guy it won't.
2006-08-09 11:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by XoSexierDenYewXo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends said it hurts like for a couple seconds since your not use to it but the pain goes away real fast.
2006-08-09 11:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Annie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋