Do you think it's acceptabile or right for a 14 yr old girl to be interested in a 9 yr old boy? She said he's cute,but most little kids are. what are your thoughts? thanks
2006-08-09 11:23:00 · 15 answers · asked by sweetnnasty26 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No, I think that's a little strange.
2006-08-09 11:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, no. A fourteen year old girl should be checking out guys her age, possibly a year or two older as well. At least, I'm fourteen and that's what I do. I find younger guys very immature and sexually unappealing. I would never date a guy five years younger, no way. Tooooo immature. She said he's cute, you said most little kids are. You are RIGHT!! He is just a LITTLE KID! Even if she's interested in him, he won't - shouldn't - be interested in her. It's not acceptable. Stop this now....
2006-08-10 17:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is okay for her to think he is cute and even enjoy his company, but the difference in maturity and experience and social skills is too great there.
If it was a 14 year old boy and a 9 year old girl someone parents would be frieken out..
2006-08-09 18:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by serpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am 14 and I have never really thought of a young guy like that I mean I won't even date a guy who is a day younger than me. But like if she like's him I think this little crush will pass most of mine did and now I have a bf who is really sweet but its he choice I know people who are married and the wife is 5 years older so it doesn't matter unless she likes him... it's her choice
2006-08-09 18:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
altho he is "cute" he is only 9 years old, and kids at that age i dont think fully understand relationships, as well as 14yr olds, and personally i dont think it is right at all for a 14 yr old to even think in that way about a 9 yr old boy.
2006-08-09 18:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be cute, but if they were to do anything I would wonder if she would be considered old enough to face legal action. I would find out the specifics about the laws and how they work for your state. Our state includes a 3 year age difference that includes teens.
2006-08-09 18:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh. no. not in a romantic/ dating/ sexual type of way. i think its alright to be friendly with the 9 year old, but nothing more.
2006-08-09 19:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by HoTt♥ChIcK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, her thoughts are much different then his, and girls mature faster than boys do she needs to look to other teens not children.
2006-08-09 18:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal. On her mind is kissing, dating, and relationships. On his mind is passing next weeks spelling test.
2006-08-09 21:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.....No, that is not acceptable, that is weird. I'm picturing somebody a year younger than me with my friend's little brother...That's f*cking weird!!!
2006-08-09 23:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋