OK YAHOOLIANS THIS IS THE SITUATION my girlfriend and I have been haveing arguements and they all involve a guy calling her cell phone SO I ask her if she's cheating and she say's no but there's just too much going on to beilve it so you ask her to erase the number and it takes three days for her to erase it ummm. so you ask her to take a lie detector test and she say's no!!! WHAT!!! now mine you we have been together for two years .so i ask you with the situation I really love her but i want to know if she's cheating so what would you think and waht would you do I WHERE YOU..? please serious answers please.
2006-08-09 11:17:05 · 10 answers · asked by KING OF KINGS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her you want to talk to the guy yourself (if you were smart, you would have copied the number for yourself BEFORE you asked her to erase it). Have her set up a meeting of some sort with all three of you. If she won't do it, or if he won't, I'd say somethings up.
You could also try sitting down with her and explaining the situation to her. This guy just may mean the end of the relationship bewteen the two of you (reality check). If she values your relationship, then she needs to tell you what is going on, whether it is "just too much" or not. She may lose you over this -- is that really what she wants? It's not what you want, but you love her too much to trap her in a relationship that she doesn't really want to be in anymore (lay on the guilt). You could even ask her what she would do in your shoes -- how would she feel if you were calling some girl, wouldn't erase her number when she asked you two, then won't give you any explanation at all as to what is going on (role reversal).
BTW asking her to take a lie detector test wasn't the smartest move. You immediately put her on the offensive, closing her up tight.
Good luck man!
2006-08-09 11:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Barney's Betty 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends, is this someone that she met before you and is supposedly a friend or is this someone who just appeared since you both been together. If it is just a friend, then I would leave it at that and you would just have to have more trust in her. If it is someone that just appeared, well that could mean she just made a new friend and you have nothing to worry about. On the other hand, she could be building some emotional ties with someone which would mean that something is lacking in your relationship with her. So, is she cheating? Maybe, then again maybe not. The best solution would be to find out was is lacking and fix it so she doesn't look for it in someone else. Communication, communication, communication. Good luck!!
2006-08-09 11:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mxdpl8 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call the number and ask the guy. Find out for yourself from him. Or better yet...find out where he lives and go ask him in person and ask her to go with you....if she says NO then you know for sure she's lying...because if it were innocent then she wouldn't mind you talking to the guy and asking him what's going on with the two of them. Trust your instincts.....deep down you know she's cheating.....you are hoping that it's not true and you want to believe her but you know she's lying. It's pretty obvious from what you typed that she is not telling you the whole truth. Get her phone and call the number or wait for the cellphone bill to come in the mail and look at how long she has been talking to him on the phone when you aren't around. Most cellphone bills will show exactly how many minutes a person talked on the phone and it will show every single number they called.
2006-08-09 11:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate it at the same time as human beings try this to me. they purely go away me impressive and that i continually ask your self if I did some thing incorrect or in the adventure that they don't love me. It receives so stressful. haha, yet when I were you, then i ought to deliver her yet another message and be conscious if she responds. If no longer, she's likely no longer in contact. yet you seem to be a really tremendous guy :) so i'm particular you'll discover some different person.
2016-11-29 19:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by audette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need a lie detector test to help your relationship - you don't have a relationship.
A relationship is the mutual committment of two people to each other. Move on, and keep looking for someone who you can have a mutual relationship with.
2006-08-09 11:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you both have problems. If you are under 25 you should not be in an exclusive relationship. Just move on.
2006-08-09 11:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by want it bad 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't and don't trust her why be with her? She may well be cheating, and if so move on. Feel the pain, deal with it and find someone kind who will love you through it all.
2006-08-09 11:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Where there is smoke there is fire. If she is no longer interested in sex and isn't as affectionate, that's a big sign too.
2006-08-09 11:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Time to release her from the interrogation - relationship
2006-08-09 11:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by longrunfool 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like she is cheating and justifiably so.
2006-08-09 11:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Info_Please 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋