My best friend for 7 years and I just got into a huge fight. She is totally ignoring me and I told my friend to tell her to answer me and she just left and wouldn't respond. What do I do, we're both pissed and extrmely mad and I already apologized. I don't get the problem, but she thinks she being replaced but shes not and no matter how many times I say she won't listen, help please.
2006-08-09 11:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by Shorty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her time to cool off she is being insecure wright a short letter that is to the point tell her that she is not being replaced then tell her that when she is ready to contact you let her know that you will be there when she needs you. and leave it at that. It makes you the "bigger man" and puts the ball in her court. And that is what she needs to feel secure
2006-08-09 11:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by kwingfan13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can you really promise her you wont replace her. i know the feeling and it hurts alot when you feel like your being moved out of someones life youve been apart of for so long.try to do whats in your power to make her understand shes not going anywhere and neither are you then give her some time to elize what your saying is true.
2006-08-09 18:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by cabbiela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. DONT MAKE SOMEBODY ELSE BE A MESSENGER. it'll only piss her off more. and it'll get that person caught in the middle, which will probably make HER ignore you too. so dont do that.
2. and dont just tell her "omg your not listening"
yeah sure. thats def. gonna help.
3. you dont seem to be trying very hard to fix anything. geez get a move on.
2006-08-09 18:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by softballgirl0127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude... just let her be like that.... say hi to her.... cause you want to be the "big girl" and show her that!!! shell get over it... and if she talks to you don't walk away cause then you'll do the same as she was doing!!!
but i think that she feels jealousy inside of her and that hurts her a lot... but I'm not saying not to talk to the other friend... but what i am saying is... like.... treat them equally so one or the other doesn't feel left out!!
2006-08-09 18:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by NeveR pRoMisE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does it take to let it cool off. I think you should get as much help as possible to deal with this. Everyone who can help is fine. A very good friend wouldn't argue with you much, and that 's my opinion.
2006-08-09 18:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by caltam84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time she might get over it.
2006-08-09 18:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by girliegirl26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋