well, 1 you could ask
just suck it up and do it. do it in privacy. on the playground is a no-pressure place, if it's just you and him. don't do it in the cafeteria, all you guys's friends will be around, and that's somethin you wanna ask in privacy so he'll be comfortable being honest
watch his body language
this is hard but
go up around him and twirl your hair, flip it in the wind or, ask him about a party or something
get kinda close to him when you do it
now watch his face. is it red? (blushing) does he smile? does he try to pretend like he's not nervous?
and a really good sign- does he stutter when he tries to talk back to you
now if he does or you think he does, and he's too punk to tell you or make the first move, then you gotta decide what you wanna do with that information. That's hard but sometimes the girl's gotta make the first move y'know, and besides, it'll gain you some experience dealing with this sort of thing in the future. It'll pull your confidence up, the more you do it.
Remember though you don't have to do things too fast, always remember that. I say at any age do what you're comfortable with doing in a relationship. In the end, all your relationship decisions are yours and your guy's, not your friends. Don't let them pressure you to do nothin' you don't wanna do.
Peace out and good luck
2006-08-09 11:27:08
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answered by bun223 3
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you didn't say what he said after you asked him if he likes you, but anyway does he flirt with you? when you look at him does he smile, or just look at you like you're crazy for looking at him.....do you get this weird butterfly feeling in your stomach when you two are around each other? well i would have to have more details to tell you but if you want email me at sweetlilsyco@yahoo.com
2006-08-09 18:29:20
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answered by sweetlilsyco 1
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you are 13, most guys your age just started getting to like girls. You'll be able to tell by the silly comments or gestures he makes.
2006-08-09 22:12:40
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answered by young kim 4
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Well Im 14 and when i like a girl i stare at her a lot. I know that may sound wrong but its not.
2006-08-09 22:11:53
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answered by Ryan G 2
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well the only sure fire thing is to ask him. you aren't going to know forsure unless you get it right from the horse's mouth. by the way, you put this in the totally wrong category. (amusement parks????)
2006-08-09 23:59:23
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answered by rabika97 3
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u have 2 take a chance hope he likes u and u probly get a alot of anwers
2006-08-10 01:01:53
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answered by Anonymous
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sit on his lap/flirt wit him u make the first move
2006-08-09 19:17:10
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answered by Moneymike 3
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you know i have the same problem... and i really don't know what to do? maybe just go out and ask him if he really likes you?!!!
2006-08-09 18:22:26
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answered by justwondering 1
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listn to how he talks to u, and if he wants to be near u all the time
2006-08-09 20:35:00
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answered by epchacon 2
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Ask him. "Will you go with me?" lol.
2006-08-10 10:42:19
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answered by Anonymous
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