He is my best friend and the most attractive guy I've ever met. He should be out of college now but he can't seem to take more than 1 class a semester and play his Xbox everyday. He plays it for about 6-7 hours a day and it never bothered me til now. We live together and still have our "dates" but just looking at him playing games makes me sick.
*He has had 2 jobs that lasted for a month or so. His dad has always given him everything he wants.
2006-08-09 11:14:47 · 6 answers · asked by lvs4cheap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We still have our "dates" meaning that we get dressed up a few times a week and go out to dinner and a movie.
2006-08-09 11:15:43 · update #1
Time to move on.
You've obvoiously got different life ambitions.
It takes a hellava lot more to sustain a perminent relationship than sexual attraction.
Talking to him won't work. He will probably tell you what he thinks you want to hear.
He actions speak volumes.
Move on.
2006-08-09 11:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably leave. If he is at college-age and still not focused, I would not want that as my problem. He sounds spoiled, so getting him to take control of his life and get off his butt is not going to be easy.
Talk to him and let him know your concerns and if he doesn't make a conscious effort, move on.
If what he is doing now, does not fit with what you want in your future, you shouldn't be together.
2006-08-09 18:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go on with my future plans. Have you two talked about this situation? He feels he doesn't have to do anything because his father gives him just about anything. He should want something for his self. What if his father isn't around for him to get just about anything then what is he going to turn to you for what his father was doing? He should stand up and be a man and do something for his self. He's spoiled. How old is he not that age really matters.
2006-08-09 18:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you know what you are wanting out of life by now. If you say that he has no future going for him, well you better set your standards higher, move out, the faster the better. Dont lower your standards for him
2006-08-09 18:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by jellybean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a child in a mans body. If it hasn't changed in 2 years, it doesn't sound like it will. Take care.
2006-08-09 22:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could talk to him about. Does he ever intend on maturing? If not, well then you know you would be better off with someone else.
2006-08-09 18:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by stephanielara87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋