even thought i sometimes like the way a girl looks i have no sexual interest
2006-08-09 11:10:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's all about attraction. Whatever we call ourselves 'gay', straight' whatever we still have attractions towards people, be it friendship or something more. I class myself as a gay man, but I can still see beauty in women. It really boils down to what you settle for in your relationships and how honest you are with yourself about the strength of your feelings or attraction to other people.
2006-08-09 11:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with what Honeyinthelexus and Waggy...
Nothing to be worried about... and even for those who have had sexual urges with women and acted... nothing wrong with that either... despite many gay folks "get over the fence or get off " attitudes... there is nothing at all wrong with a person enjoying sexual activity with both male and female sexed people.. Most of us believe we were born this way and it wasnt a choice for us who we were attracted to sexually... so why should it be any different for one who is bi-sexual? its not... the only choice in the deal for bi-sexuals is which of the sexes they will ultimately settle down with for the long haul... and when you think about it... homosexuals have this choice too... alot of homosexuals dont come out at all for whatever reasons... and live secret lives with secret relationships... and often feel forced to try to live as "normal" life as possible.
We are who we are... and we are perfect the way we are...
2006-08-09 11:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are simply admiring her beauty. You can recognize a beautiful object and not be intimidated by it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a gay man enjoying the view of a woman, what really matters is when you are attracted to a woman wanting her sexually, that would be a different case.
2006-08-09 11:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO JUST LIKE I DID I KNEW I WAS GAY BUT I ALSO LIKED THE WAY BROADS GAWKED AT ME HY THIS IS DAVEY AND STEEVIE BOTH GAY PARTNERS, I FOUND MY GAY PARTNER AND BEFORE THAT I WAS CONFUSEDD AS TOO WHAT I WANTED THE MINUTE I LAYED EYES ON HIM HE STRAIGHTENED ME OUT AND GAVE ME A LIFE AND HAPINESS AND PEACE AND PROSPERITY, ITS GONNA TAKE THE RIGHT MAN IN YOUR LIFE YOU SAY YOUR GAY DO THE RIGHT THING AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART IF YOUR GAY FINE IF YOUR STRAIGHT THAT FINE WHEN YOU ARE IN THE SHAAPE YOUR IN NOW FIND A TRUE GAY PARTNER WHO WILL STRAIGTEN YOU OUT I DID ITT ETC.
2006-08-09 11:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very common ... i like the way horses and cheetahs look when they're running ... l like the way cats smell ... i like the way ricky martin looks when he dances ... does that mean i want to have sex with any of these or that i'm into bestiality? ... absolutely not! ... as you say, i have no sexual interest
2006-08-09 11:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by ftm_poolshark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually know them, tell them they're beautiful. A lot of women take it as a complement, as long as they know you're gay and not interested.
2006-08-09 16:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by samjrei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything..just enjoy the way she looks.
2006-08-09 11:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it all the time but i am happy with my sexuallity and i know i dont fancy women
2006-08-09 11:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a go and see what you think. You may be bi, which is perfectly OK!
2006-08-09 15:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be gay, but stay away from me.
2006-08-09 11:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by ssgtusmc3013 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋