During sex i can tantalize my sweeties mind with thoughts of me with another female but if i mention any desires for a male its an abomination.
2006-08-09 11:08:57 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm ashamed, as a strong hetorosexual male, to say yes that probably is a normal reaction. We males are a strange bunch, we like to think of females enjoying themselves with other females, but we are not strong enough in our own abilities to feel safe with you having or even thinking about being with another guy. I apologize to all you females, for our shortsightedness.
2006-08-09 11:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes of course. I have found that most males fantasize about a hot steamy threesome with his wife or g/f and another hot girl but mention a threesome with you, him and another guy or better yet one of his FRIENDS and he totally FLIPS OUT and gets turned off. I don't understand why it's okay for them to screw another girl while you watch but they couldn't stand another guy screwing you while he has to watch. I think a threesome is a great fantasy to discuss during sex but I don't think any married couple or couple that actually love each other should ever participate in a threesome because few relationships are strong enough to survive the jealousy that follows. I've always heard if you are going to have a threesome make sure it's with two other people that you have no feelings for whatsoever.
2006-08-09 18:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because the thought of another man is a turn off not to mention a sin. so i suggest you just leave the topic alone and stick to tantalizing him with other women.although this might lead to an affair
2006-08-09 18:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by cabbiela 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe if the male was a comotose homosexual impudent midget hermaphrodite senior citizen......that might not be such an abomination. I guess it could kill the mood pretty quick though. Hey....is that what you were laughing about in the other sex question???
2006-08-11 01:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by stringemuphigh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man's fantasy is not another man. It is guy thing. Women can appreciate other women, and love other women, but that is because it doesn't upset the natural order of any man is to have as many women as possible. Another man is competition that upsets the natural order according to a man.
2006-08-09 18:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally normal
2006-08-09 18:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Surfer J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pretty common
Explanation - A woman isn't seen as a threat, a male is seen as a threat. One is okay the other isn't.
I don't personally agree with it, but thats the average train of thought.
2006-08-09 18:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him to tantalize your thoughts of him and another woman and see how you feel. then just for the hell of it and for a good laugh ask him to tantalize you with thoughts of another man
2006-08-09 18:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by jordy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course. It's part of the hypocrisy of the hetero male mind. If she wants to bring another girl into bed with me, she's adventurous and awesome. If she wants to bring another man OH DEAR LORD does she think I'm gay I'm not gay nope no gay here. I'm the same way.
...seriously.
2006-08-09 18:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's a normal reaction.
The first scenario is gratifying to him and the second isn't.
2006-08-09 18:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by DomC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋