will my feelings be out of my system or made worse??
2006-08-09 11:00:22 · 12 answers · asked by hawkette 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Your feelings would probably be out by the time you realized wut you were doing. It's kind of gross that you would want to kiss your own sister...but if that's how you really feel about her, do it! You should'nt let your embarrasment get in the way.
2006-08-12 19:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These feelings are coming from a place that is not romantic love. She is your sister and if you follow through on these feelings they will add to other issues you probably are already dealing with. People don't just have attractions to family members out of the blue...there is something going on behind the scenes here. You may have a troubled background and are reaching out to someone that seems safe, but your feelings are muddled...there can be no good outcome from this. You probably need to look at what's going on inside you and how you really feel about yourself, learn to identify feelings and how they are affecting you and your decision making. It's very difficult for anyone to do that on their own, that's why there are good resources out there...if you can start with counseling for yourself, that would probably be a good beginning. There are resources in the yellow pages or spiritual centers/churches out there. Good luck, sweetheart.
2006-08-09 18:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by AMac 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine what you are going through. This is really not the place to actually solve a problem like that. I work in the mental health field. What I can tell you right now is that what are you going through is not unusual at all. However, as very well know, you cannot act on those feelings. There is nothing wrong with you, you just need a little hlep. It would be great if you can get to see a therapist, or counselor. If you feel I can help with some advice, feel free to contact me at ridvan9@yahoo.com. Good luck to you.
2006-08-09 18:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Style 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I saw you deleted your other question:
Here's the thing. Most people on yahoo! answers are just here for attention. They like to ask wack questions and say off-color things to get attention. If that is the case, then I would say no you do not need professional help. Just grow up. However, if the questions you are asking are genuine then yes, I would suggest help. It also depends on how old you are. Although kissing your sister seems like the nastiest thing ever, lot of little kids practice kissing with their bro/sister (i'm talking like the age of 5), just like "playing doctor". But if you're older, you def. should NOT be kissing anyone of blood relations.
As far as the mirror thing goes, that's just weird.
Only you know what you're really feeling. No one can look inside your head. If you feel this awful I say go seek professional help. What have you got to lose?
2006-08-09 18:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by staygold 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Chances are it would only make it worse. It will give you the urge to get more and more. I'm sure that whatever you happen to be going through is very hard. I would advise that you go a short period of time without seeing her if it is really that bad. On the other hand hand, maybe you should, even if it does make it worse.You really should just be who you are deep down inside. Only then, will you feel completely relieved. I doubt many people here have much experience with psychiatry. You should see someone in person who does have these expertise.
2006-08-09 18:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by some guy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
To answer the question you deleted... looked... If you seriously are worried and feel a low self esteem, maybe you should find professional help.
You need to understand that there are imperfections and confusion everywhere in the world but you need not worry about it all the time.
I believe you'll get over this. Learn to relax. It is gonna take some time. Just trust yourself and trust others. People will think whatever they want. Don't try too hard to look perfect and don't dwell too much in random thoughts. Also ask God for help!
And stay sober... You are probably just drunk and do too many drugs!
2006-08-09 18:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i don't think u really love Ur sister that way i think u love her like a sister but u have no one else to love in a romantic way and u need some one to so Ur mistaking it for romantic love or your making it romantic love either way i think if u find the right person these feelings will go away
2006-08-09 18:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm, if she's ur sister then it is morally wrong and illegal. if u do this, then it will encourage u to want to do worse things. i'd say get help immediately before u do something to get urself in trouble. if she's underage, u'll actually get in more trouble if caught. honestly, seek therapy ASAP.
2006-08-09 18:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
if you are having feeling of sexual desire about your sister get help. If you are not and are wondering if you will after you kiss her. you probably won't. No tongue.
2006-08-09 18:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by curious writer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she willing? Either way, it isn't a good idea. Control your urges, don't let them control you. Go out and get a life.
2006-08-09 18:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋