Hi i met a married man over a month ago i didnt know he was married he told me he was separated but he may go back to his wife. I fell for him and told him i wouldnt sleep with him coz i wanted to see him again. he lives an hour and a hakf away from me and my best friend is his best friends girlfrind. her boyfriend told me he had really fallen for me and though all his texts and words he seemed different to everyone ide met like some-one ide dreamed of. he told me the first night even though he was in my house he expected nothing from me.I saw him again and we still never slept together but he came up last night i have a new partner who is a good guy but thier is no spark and when i saw him at a stag a hen do i just crumbeld i ended it with this man three times as had my doubts and i told him to be faithfull to his wife or leave. Today he sent me all the usal nice things in words as he allways does but ive just ended it coz one of his text says he can offer me nothing am i bieng played
2006-08-09 11:00:04 · 10 answers · asked by Jilly777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, your being played.
and even if you were not....why on earth are you going for this much complication in a relationship?
Relationships are supposed to be fun, not a constant drag with this sort of confusion.
2006-08-09 11:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I made this mistake before... I tell you something I would never make it again! Do they all sing from the same Hymn sheet or what?
I guess you would be being played if he lied and strung you along and said that he was going to leave his wife blah blah. He's basically saying he's quite happy to have his cake and eat it as long as your happy to put up with it. You will get over him eventually. You make think you can handle it at the moment, but what about further down the line when you end up falling for him properly. He already told you he cant offer you anything. Move on girl.... dont play second fiddle to anyone. Dont waste your time when you could be out there meeting someone who can offer you more!
2006-08-09 11:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Charley G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please drop him now I just went through this the past week.... I just went through the same situation. I loved a married guy to death but I made the mistake of sleep ing with him. Now I never talk to him and ive probably screwed up a relationship with him. He will tell you how much a a $$ his wife his but if he was going to leave her he already would have.
2014-10-10 12:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bad news, dump him fast, before it gets worse. He is using you. What part of MARRIED do you not understand?
The worst possible outcome is what you think you want - he leaves his wife and marries you. Now what? You are married to a known liar and cheater. Do you think he won't do the same to you, just as soon as someone hotter comes along to give him that chance?
2006-08-09 11:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Grizzly B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are being played but you seem willing to play your part. Stop messing around leave the man alone and get on with your life. THERE IS ENOUGH UNMARRIED MEN OUT THERE.
2006-08-09 11:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't pushing you for sex b/c he's getting plenty from his old lady. he's on an ego rush b/c somebody new likes him. he'll never leave his wife. it's cheaper to keep her, and child support is way expensive. tell him to get lost.
2006-08-09 11:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being played! What about his poor wife! go get your own!
2006-08-09 11:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your messing with the unknown.
2006-08-09 11:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh PLEASE tell me you arent THIS stupid! he isnt going to marry you and live happy ever after, hes MARRIED, and will STAY that way! get away from him!
2006-08-09 11:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you silly girl !
2006-08-09 11:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋