leave. just leave. and move to the USA, he can go to jail here, and then that will be your sweet sweet revenge, and if he trys to make you do oral BITE really really hard, that should teach him. or just do some damage down there.
2006-08-09 10:45:56
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answered by hott_mandi42 3
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Well, first of all, Honey, it seems the problem is 2-sided!
I think MOST of us find marriage harder than we expected. There can be some pretty challenging and often quite regular problems of one kind or another.
We all face toughness in this life at times!
Your attitude towards him can do nothing to benefit you whatsoever, however.
You have nailed it with this guy [You haven't said whether you have been formally married together], but if you have allowed yourself to be living together as husband and wife, you are basically committed.
Unless there is provision made in your country for separation, you may have to really learn how to love this guy.
But you are going to have to talk frankly to him about some bedside manners.
Tell him you want to love him, but you need to work together nicely to do so.
Really, between each other, you have to commit to make it love ... and Love most grows by making genuine sacrifices for each other.
Things will eventually begin to settle down between you.
If you do the right thing in this life, God has promised you that no matter how tough it is, He will heal you and give you blessing beyond compare in the Afterlife!!
If you have been faithful, no matter what, he will give you a truly wonderful worthy man for you for Eternity - and that's a LONG TIME!!!
You will know that the sacrifice has been all worth it.
I wish you Good Luck, and God's Blessing.
2006-08-09 11:08:56
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answered by dr c 4
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no man should ever no matter what county make a women give them pleasure. tell him that if he wants to have sex to let u know instead of making u do it and if he says no the best thing to do would be to leave him b/c no women should go through it . its called rape.
2006-08-09 11:11:40
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answered by jmlover777 1
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I'm sorry that this has to happen to you. In most country this is rape and it is illegal. You need to find a way to leave him because if you fight him off, he will just come back at you worst.
2006-08-09 10:44:27
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answered by Stacia V 2
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Your partner has no right to force you to do anything. Say no and mean it. If he persists, it is rape. NO MEANS NO! If you are forced, call the police and report him. Press charges and get away from him.
Have you tried a knee (hard!!) to his genitals? It should get the point across.
2006-08-09 11:47:48
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answered by shermiegyrl 3
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Move to America.
Move to America.
Move to America.
Divorce him.
Divorce him.
Divorce him.
Move to America so you can divorce him.
Take some self defense classes if your place has them.
2006-08-09 10:44:15
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answered by missgigglebunny 7
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you have to leave him, men like him will not change nor understand.......write your mother and arrange to go to her, than file for a divorce...you can make it on your own.......good luck
2006-08-09 11:06:59
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answered by monalisa 2
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you poor thing!! im so sorry, but i see no happiness for you with him. get out as soon as you can. good luck to you
2006-08-09 10:45:41
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answered by honey 2
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leave
2006-08-09 10:43:40
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answered by Kord 3
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