For 7 yrs and never once mentioned the I love you's Is it too late to do that?
2006-08-09 10:01:43 · 17 answers · asked by waiting4myredemption 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ohh wow I forgot to say Sister is seeing the married man! Not me!!Feeling the unlove..
2006-08-09 10:08:48 · update #1
UH!! HELLO! seven year -no divorce. You may be feeling the hate but your sister is sure not feeling the reciprocation of love.
That is how this whole mistress/wanna be homewrecker thing works. You are the other woman the one that is not good enough to marry and bring home to the family. The one he doesn't want to support and raise a family with. After 7 years she should already know it is just a sex thing. She is ruining a family and infringing on a commitment. She is also wasting her life. If she wanted a forever, love, soulmate type relationship she needed to find her own man. the one she is with is already taken.
2006-08-09 10:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was too late from the start. It's nothing but a pointless mess to get involved with someone that's involved. Do you seriously want to 'be' with this person? He is going to stay with his wife and just have you on the side for as long as you keep letting him. You should end it. That probably won't happen. So let's just say things went EXACTLY how you wanted them to. Let's suspend reality for a moment and say you told him you loved him and he said he loved you too. Then he divorced her and got with you. You do understand that then you'd be the wife and another girl would fill in the 'action on the side' part for him. He's no good. Find a nice single man..
Update: Lol. That sucks. I think half the people that answered you wanted to ring your neck. Well not really. I hope not anyways. You should consider showing your sister some of the answers on here. As her sister she should value your opinion, but some people are funny about taking suggestions. Maybe a collective group of suggestions might shock her back into reality?
2006-08-09 17:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to cut that relationship off. You are ruining someone else's marriage. If he did the same thing to his wife then what would he do to you? I don't care how much you say it, you cannot change a man. Think about the children that could be hurt. Think about how you would feel if your husband was cheating on you and act upon that. Don't be sorry like other people and don't be sorry because he is. Think about what you are doing.
2006-08-09 17:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by hnic_shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the single men in the world, why would she pick one who's committed? If the I love you's haven't been mentioned by now, it's because the situation was set up for HIS Butty calls whenever he needs them, and she's just been screwed in more than one way. Its exactly what she deserves.
2006-08-09 17:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell 2 ppl that you love them. How could he tell you that he loves you and then when he is with his wife tell her that he loves her. And when he tells her, he has to say it in his own tone and feelings that she doesnt know about you.
And.... after 7 years if he is still married, do you honestly think he is going to leave his wife? Time to move on hun...you know that old saying....There is more fish in the sea...? Time to go fishing!
2006-08-09 17:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by twinkies_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seeing a married man, you are a homewrecker. Please break up with him and tell him to work on his marriage. You know that if you were married, you'd want people to respect your marriage. Do unto others ...
And, if you've been seeing him for seven years w/o any commitments, then he's just using you for sex and diversion.
2006-08-09 17:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little late for that seeing as he is already married.
2006-08-09 17:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married.. you've been seeing him for seven years and he never told you he loves you and you wanna know if you should throw some more of your life away on him?? Yeah, sure why not keep seeing him??
2006-08-09 17:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the World? He and she are not in a position to Love one another... due to the whole...MARRIED thing! Saying it or displaying it... It's ALL Inappropriate and WRONG!!!
Get it together! WOW!
2006-08-09 17:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with this guy for 7 years, it's time to go on with you're life, YES it's to late, you can fine someone that will, say I love you, move on with you're life.
2006-08-09 17:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Flowers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋