im always telling him he looks nice or looks good ,i never ever tell him that he dont,i dont understand why he cant show the same respect for me as i do for him.
2006-08-09 09:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've ask him so many times he just dont really say anything to me .he just changes the sub., i think it's pretty sad when a stranger well tell me im pretty or even ask me out but my husband dont.
2006-08-09 10:10:08 · update #1
Stop giving him compliments. Don't tell him when you think he looks good. Put the shoe on the other foot, so to speak. See how he likes it, or doesn't.
2006-08-09 10:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is one thing I've learned over the years it is that men, and women are a very different species. Women are naturally giving, and nurturing. Women also need compliments, food, and occasional pair of shoes. Men on the other hand have no clue as to the importance of what these few things will do for a woman. I suggest you keep complimenting your husband if he deserves it. His not doing the same to you doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you , it could just mean his mind is not attuned to what women really need or expect. I do hope you do take care to look, and smell nice around him because if you are lacking this may be your answer. Check yourself from time to time.
2006-08-09 10:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you nonetheless with him?????!?!!?!? you deserve know!!!! you will desire to no longer consult with him approximately it , basically act like he does not count number, i'm no longer asserting do no longer consult with hit in any respect, i'm asserting in hassle-free terms communicate whilst mandatory, do no longer say something superb to him, do no longer waste lots time on you hair or what so ever because of the fact he does not deserve it, you will desire to not at all be silent whilst he mocks you, that's amazingly (im sorry) rude, in spite of you do, do no longer consult with him, handle him like crap and be EXTREMLY advise to him , while you evaluate that's what he merits, you will desire to have know from each and every physique , if somebody does not be conscious of the thank you to handle you, coach that individual how, if he nonetheless does not get it , do each and every thing advise that case basically BE advise !! and chilly and in hassle-free terms communicate whilst mandatory thats whilst he realises that he has been undesirable to you and could do impossible to make you chuffed and don't fall for the 1st attempt until eventually he's desperate
2016-09-29 02:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked the other questions you have asked here on Y-Answers. It is time for you to see a marriage counselor and work through the baggage that has accumulated in your marriage.
2006-08-09 10:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine does the same thing. They just aren't very good at communicating that fact. I've just had to learn to live with it. Their idea of respect isn't the same as ours.
2006-08-09 10:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just flat out ask him? He might not realize that you need that and he is not doing that. He might be thinking it in his head but let him know that you need to know those things once in a while.
2006-08-09 10:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being married awhile, (don't know how long you have been married) men just take it for granted that you know how they feel about you and so that don't take the time to tell you any longer. They think since they married you that you "know" how they feel. Have you told him how you feel? If not, best to tell him that it's important to you that you know how he feels about you.
2006-08-09 10:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've asked my husband that for 26 years he just isnt like that. Either accept it or leave.
2006-08-09 10:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him he looks good anymore. Give him a taste of his own medicine. If he doesn't compliment you, you don't compliment him...at all.
2006-08-10 05:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt see u as attractive as before when u just get married u need to do something about ur self
2006-08-09 10:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by happyface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋