i love that men but he hurt my felling easy that i dont know how to get out my love to him and trying to forget him /??????
2006-08-09 09:52:03 · 18 answers · asked by misty love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just think to how he let himself to hurt you think that how he could abuse of your feeling thats enough for you
2006-08-09 10:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by slash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard and will take some time...but you must persevere. Remember that he dose not deserve you and every second of your precious time(thoughts) you donate to him is quality time lost. Emphasize that you love yourself best and first...and hold your head up as you repair your dignity. Find a new hobby or involve yourself in a old one. Buy or find a good book to occupy your idle time...that always work. Concentrate...and when his thoughts creep into your mind, don't allow yourself to dwell and revert your mind to something positive. I know it seem impossible but if you focus you can do it. Also try and accomplish something positive each day and make that a positive daily goal.
I am speaking from experience...I've been there.
If you use the above with any kind of consistency you will see progress little by little and you will overcome.
Lastly, use this experience to make you a stronger more confident person and with pride get on with your life.
2006-08-09 17:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP THINKING OF HIM! THINK ABOUT YOURSELF. Yes, he may have hurt your feelings but why let those feelings continue to haunt you. Go out and do things for yourself, take your mind off of him by keeping yourself busy and around friends. Stay out of the house, have fun and catch up with old friends. Do not stay home and mope around, it'll only make it more difficult for you to forget about him and what he has done.
2006-08-09 16:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Luvlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can tell you is that you have your whole life ahead of you and you shouldn't waste on some guy i mean you will meet other men your young so live life to it's fullest dont let it live you. and spend some time thinking about all the good things about you that he was to stupid to notice. and take some time off do something fun and exciting and try yoga it relives stress
2006-08-09 16:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by iLaugh [a lot] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some poems about abuse, and decide if you want to be like them...play some relaxing musuc and get out, You gat tired of being treated like a thing and not a woman. i was treated like dirt by the last ex of mine... I am 5 states from him six if he takes the long way!
2006-08-09 16:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Taya Wane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is fight the urge to call him back and be around him and let time pass. It's gonna hurt, but everyday, it will get a little better. After enough days, you'll be fine.
2006-08-09 16:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he hurt your feelings badly, what makes you think he won't do it again. The man is not worth your suffering for him. He's garbage and he is not worth a tear, so get yourself together and look forward, never back OK?
2006-08-09 16:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, is it "man" (singular) or "Men" (plural) and YES THERE IS A DIFFERENCE!
get a hobby!... read a book or two! (and no romance novels!), go volunteer at a hospital or something, don't be so focused on being in a relationship. do one of the above things first, then let time do the rest.
2006-08-09 16:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it " this guy don't deserve to be love by you". He has no respect on you and he hurt you! That's emotional torture! Get out from that bondage girl and find someone who will respect you as a person and protect you , not hurt you! Heal yourself...goodluck!
2006-08-09 17:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by danielle_girl82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep reminding yourself of all the bad things that he has done to you. and every time a good time sneaks in, start all over. Its going to take awhile but you will get over him! Focus on other positive things in your life.
2006-08-09 16:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldn't ever forget him, as he was an experience to learn from. But to move on, you should find a way to fogive him.
2006-08-09 16:56:15 · answer #11 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋