2006-08-09 09:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by whatever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it feels like you've been screwed, you probably are. Hire a PI, with the evidence, get a divorce .
2006-08-10 05:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew that my wife was cheating on me long before I had any concrete evidence. I hate to say it, but he probably is.
Because he has denied it, you'll need some solid evidence so you can confront him.
Do you have children? If not, confront the cheating jerk and move on. If so, make an appointment with a marriage counselor. Then confront him and tell him when the appointment is. If he shows up, try to work it out so that the two of you and your children will be happy. If he doesn't show up, dump the cheating jerk and move on.
2006-08-09 17:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit that there is a problem either way and seek marriage counseling. Either your spouse is having a problem with your marriage and is cheating on you or you are having a problem with your marriage and no longer trust your spouse. Either way there is a problem and you need help.
2006-08-09 16:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree about the Gut feeling...My husband cheated on me and till this day he swears he didn't...Even tho i know he has and i talk to the girl who he cheated on me with..But he will not admit it for some reason..Well now were getting a divorce and I'm much happier
2006-08-09 17:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM GOING THREW THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW.AND YES HE IS GOING TO LIE AND SO WILL SHE,BECAUSE THIER SCARED.BUT NEVER THE LESS.....JUST TELL YOUR HUSBAND THAT HE'S NOT TO SEE THIS WOMAN ANYMORE AT ALL,IF HE STILL LOVES YOU AND REPECTS YOUR FEELING HE WILL.IF NOT THEN I WOULD JUST LET HIM GO.BECAUSE WHEN YOU FORGIVE HIM FOR THAT MISS TAKE,, HE'S GOING TO THINK YOU WILL FORGIVE HIM AGAIN.I WAS JUST TOLD THAT BY A GOOD FRIEND I MEANT IN HERE, AND HE'S RIGHT.EVEN IF IT RIPS YOU APART YOU CANT STAY WITH SOMEONE THAT'S GOING TO TREAT YOU LIKE NOTHING,YOU ARE 100% BETTER THEN THAT.STRIGHT UP.AND IM VERY SORRY THAT YOU HAVE TO GO THREW THIS,I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.
2006-08-09 18:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by lilastevenson42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can believe them or you can not believe them. If you don't believe them hire a private detective to see if they can find out. If you don't want to hire a detective you can investigate yourself. Be prepared to get into a lot of trouble if they're NOT cheating and they find out you're investigating though.
2006-08-09 16:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a women I would say women's intuition is never wrong so snoop and find out. Dont just go by what they say because most people will not tell the truth.
2006-08-09 16:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would request that to see a marriage counselor to help build up trust again in the relationship...obviously there has been a breakdown of trust
2006-08-09 16:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know he is for sure? And he probably wont tell you. Only way is to catch him in some form. Even if you have to sneak around and spy on him, I would do whatever it takes to find out for sure.
2006-08-09 16:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by twinkies_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel he is cheating when he denies it? Do you have a reason or are you fishing for an excuse yourself.
2006-08-09 16:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋