My close sister is having an affair with a married man. She has been in the relationship for over 6 years. He has no intention to leavie his wife and children. She is frustrated in her life and is generally a mean person to be around. I try to be nice, but she can be so rude. I don't believe in this lifestyle..what should I do?
2006-08-09 09:34:35 · 4 answers · asked by curiousgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By keeping ur nose outta her business..unless u want her telling u how to live ur life! Tell me u haven't made any mistakes in ur life, now tell me have u learned anything by making those mistakes and coping with them yourself? Give her the same chance.
2006-08-09 10:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Texas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of things I don't agree with my sister on. I didn't talk to my sister for 3 years and still really don't. She told me that she didn't want me hanging around and that she had problems of her own to bother with mine. When I was trying to help her get her kids back. She was jealous of me with her "New" trashy husband. He is a drunk and a piece of crap. He did inappropriate sexual things to my niece and she refused to leave him. All of this made me so mad, I wouldn't speak to her and still don't really care to. If that is what your sister wants, you can't tell her what to do. If you feel that stongly about it and don't want to be around it, then stop talking to her and going around her. If you don't feel that strongly, then maybe see her every once in a while. Have you told her how you felt? If she doesn't care how you feel, then you have to make the decision of do you want to be around it.
2006-08-09 16:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her.. it' s her lifestyle not urs..
all u can do is tell her how u feel and let her know that she deserves better.. let her know she deserves to be 1st in anymans eyes instead of 2, (the sidechick aka the dumb a s s mistress), let her know that she is ruining someones family and that children r involved in they will get hurt as well.. let her know just because the husband has no respect for his family that -- that shouldn't mean she shouldn't.. let her know she needs to respect herself and value herself more instead of letting some married man use her for sex.. let her know if the married man wanted to be w/her he would've left his wife for her.. right now she is just convenient, she is allowing him to have his cake and eat it to...
this is exactly why men treat women like shyt.. cause of ur sister.. cause she allows him to...
2006-08-09 16:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take life one day at a time. She is not going to change. You will just have to accept her for who she is and continue to love her for her because she is your sister. Good Luck!
2006-08-09 16:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋