i just found out bout it and it really scarin me her parents died when she was really young and she blames herself and shes became depressed i tried to comfort her but nothin seems to work and she said not to tell anyone cause she'd hate me so what should i do!?
2006-08-09 09:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by dolly w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u need to talk to an adut about it cause i had the same proble and
by talkin to my mom it helped my friend.
2006-08-09 09:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take action immediately: call a suicide hotline number... I don't know of any off the top of my head, but call someone now. You really need to tell someone else: if she hates you, she hates you. And I'd think that the hate would only be temporary: after she's been helped and treated, she'll probably take back all the hate and practically worship the ground you walk on, and you'll be best friends again. I can't promise that, but that's the most probable thing that will happen. Even if she always hates you... you'll have saved her life, and that's really the most important thing.
Anyway, seriously, go get help as soon as you can...
2006-08-09 16:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by arcmdark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her. she needs u more than anyone right now. tell her everything will be okay and ur there for her. talk about what's makin her do this and try ur best to comfort her. tell her that things will turn around and her life's not worth ending. just make her feel better about herself and her life. don't leave her, she needs u. even if she's not into rock, tell her to listen to good charlotte's "hold on" and watch the video with her. it really helped me get through most of the stuff that was goin on, and be sure to tell her things will get better and everyone goes through this, cuz that's 100% true. talking helps a lot. hope that advice helps. good luck!!!
2006-08-09 17:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried it once. Tell her that she's better then that and she has the potential to be a great person. Tell her that you love her and you don't care what she says to you, you will always be there for her. She just needs to know that your not going anywhere she doesn't need words just love. Be there for her but don't say these things if you don't intend on meaning them. You gotta speak from your heart thats all you gotta do.
2006-08-09 16:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a professional 2 help her
2006-08-09 16:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Daniela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and try to give her spirit and courage. You can't be with her 24/7 but you can try to help her think 2 times befor she does it
2006-08-09 16:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is give it one more shot at talking to her. And if it doesn't work then you REALLY need to tell someone. Think about it whats more important your friend hating you or your own friends LIFE !!!!!!
2006-08-09 16:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but get her in COUNSELING. No joke. It'll be the best thing you've ever done in your life.
2006-08-09 16:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋