Is that ok? Even if you no longer get along with your wife?
2006-08-09 09:15:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh. It's an ex-girlfriend? And you don't get along with your wife anymore? Oh ok. Well then you're still a fukking cheater. One woman at a time.
2006-08-09 09:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line here: he is undoubtedly not over his ex, which means that he isn't in a position for the kind of marriage commitment you are looking for. For my part, I feel he made an excellent choice through announcing no to marrying his ex. If the one reason his ex girl used to be marrying the opposite man is considering that Mark would not marry her, that's a rather terrible solution to begin a wedding, or any relationship. I feel what could be exceptional for you could possibly be to get 12 classes of marriage counseling earlier than you critically don't forget committing to each other. A third celebration can mediate between you and talk about what marriage way to you both, what you can expect out of every different should you did get married, how you expect to share your existence and manage the disorders that existence will inevitably throw at you, appear at this incident as a communication experiment, and a test to resolving conflicts, when you consider that when you marry this will not be the worst of what you're going to have got to face.
2016-08-09 10:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by bleser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not ok, reason why is because the facts marriage sure have plm yes. and didn't mean I can just fool around with my ex girlfriend? no way, that tooooo easy to do that than just sit down and talked about with your wife.
I never ever think that why, I love my wife more than anything in the world, also my kids too. I have learned that talked about with your wife and solve the plm make the marriage more healthy. But fool around and boy mean that lose wife, everything, owe, stuff like that. Not supid......for doing that.
You have to make that choice. I made my choice to work really hard to make this marriage works. My wife and I know we love each other more than anything in the world. smile. wish you luck. also before I forget I would never put my kids in the middle or become the plm. no, way I have already been there with my family done that with my family so I know. smiling.
2006-08-09 09:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already know the answer, NO even if you are trying to convince yourself that things are OK. Married means loyalty, regardless to how the two of you get along. You have committed adultery, and sooner or later your wife will figure it out.
2006-08-09 09:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not okay. You have cheated on her and one day your guilt will eat you alive. If you don't get along with your wife then ask her for a divorce and move on with your life. Don't hurt her because your not happy.
2006-08-09 10:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK as long you are planning on NOT staying married. If you are planning on staying with your present wife, I would say "to fool around" is a very foolish thing.
2006-08-09 09:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOu have to divorce her first. Otherwise who knows if you get along or not? YOur wife might think everything is fine. If not why is she still married to you?
2006-08-09 16:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, I see nothing wrong with it. You and your ex did not get along at one time, that's why you are married. Maybe you could swap every so often and keep em both.
2006-08-09 09:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Andy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's say you do that and for sure you'll find yourself in divorce court with a wife that for sure won't want to get along with you.
2006-08-09 09:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no not okay... i mean if you dont get along with your wife then get an anulment.. but while you are with them.. you have no rite.. bc.. your reason for not getting along with them is bc you cheated.. and thats not a good wun.. you, even if you know it or not.. are the wun that is innitiating the arguments... if you want to be with your ex then leave your wife.. cuhs its stoopid.. and imatuure.. you shouldnt even ahve gotten married.. other wise... you dont seem ready for a commmitment
2006-08-09 09:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋