2006-08-09 09:15:42 · 36 answers · asked by lilastevenson42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
On saturday nights I believe is a show called "Cheaters". Watch the show, get their number, call them, and have them tail your husband.
If they except you for the show then it is free, if not then find out how much they charge.
That way if he is cheating.............you get to embarrass the hell out of him on national tv
2006-08-16 13:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. A major change of habits, how he usually is around you or treats you can be a sign something's going on. When I discovered my ex partner's cheating, all the things like him not answering my questions directly, not going out with me often anymore, other people calling him when we were together (in the night), were signs he was screwing around,,,by the way with 3 other women!
I'd suggest check his phone and text messages, but some ppl don't like that, and if he's really sly like my ex, he'd be deleting those. Its not an easy situation to be in, i hope everything is ok
2006-08-09 09:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. He may say no, but then you will have the fact that you don't trust him out in the open. I feel bad for you. I mean you are living in an environment that only causes stress and mental problems. Ask him to go to marriage counseling. A professional might be able to pick up on some of his behavior patterns.
2006-08-16 14:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he suddenly not answering the cell phone when you call him, is the call going directly to voicemail? Is he suddenly taking more interest in his appearance, new clothes, new cologne? Does he do different things in bed all of the sudden out of the blue? Is he suddenly unavailable to spend time with you? More than likely if you have suspicions he probably is cheating on you. Maybe you should can check the Cell phone bill detailed calls for unfamiliar numbers.
2006-08-16 11:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by D D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. he walk around the house just looking for something to do, but end up leaving the house to do it.
2.he question u more than usual when u leave, ask u when u comming back.
when he wear smeel good when he told u he dont like it.
3. when he talk on the phone and always leave the room or wispher.
4. start hanging out more with the guys.
5. when his cell phone ring but it says private and he dont answer it around u
hope he is not creeping but if he is get proof dont assume.
2006-08-16 14:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he comes home late, he gets weird phone calls, when he needs to run out to go somewhere out of no where, if he doesnt pick up your phone calls, if he smells like a girl, i dont know what else to tell you but you will know your instincts should be able to tell you if he is cheating or not. sorry to hear you have this problem im sure things will work out, and if it doesnt leave his sorry ***, no one deserves to be cheated on, thats really messed up, dont take him back if he did cheat, he just broke his vows and there is nothing else he can do to fix it. no man should marry unless they can be committed to only one woman, ur husband shouldnt have married in the first place if hes just gonna cheat on you! I really hope he's not, but you just gotta look out for your own best interest! hope things work out, take care!
2006-08-15 18:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by crysthy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's staying up later than you, Hanging out @ his friends house a lot. Says he just needs to talk to his friends more. walks away from u when his cell rings. Stops calling you through out the day. Makes love to u less. Gets up out of nowhere and makes a crazy excuse why he has to go the store,office etc.
2006-08-09 09:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he treating you better and sleeping with you less? Is he taking showers before he comes to bed? Does he sit in the car to talk on the cell phone? Check the phone bills and the credit card receipts.
2006-08-09 09:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok check his cell phone call log & text messages, check his underwear drawer, etc., wallet, car glove compartment. Get into his e mail if you can. And just ask around. But I have found my most evidence just checking around the house. They may be careful at 1st but eventually they get sloppy. An affair is something you just can't hide, at least not forever.
2006-08-17 02:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by kimgirlscout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he started acting different?
does he talk on the phone making sure you dont hear who he is talking to?
does he jump in the shower before he says hello?
has money been spent that you dont know about?
has he changed his clothing style? has he been coming home in different clothes?
does he disappear without you knowing where he is or where he has been?
has he changed friends?
all these are signs
but the thing is, you usually know deep down. if you feel that he is cheating deep down, then he probably is
2006-08-14 16:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋