Me and my fiance want to have a baby now. I have 2 kids and he has one. We aren't married is it wrong to want to have a baby before we get married
2006-08-09 08:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its all about what YOU believe in. If you feel like it is wrong for you then you should wait. I personally would wait....but that is just my opinion. But maybe since you already have 2 children it would be best to wait.
2006-08-09 09:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right and wrong in this instance is up to you the both of you....
as for is it a wise choice...well, that's where we may be able to help.
i would suggest waiting.
my reason is b/c your other kids are adjusting to being a family together and they are adjusting to new parental figures. putting a new baby into the mix right now may rock the boat a bit.
if i were you guys i would be concentrating on making all the kids feel loved and comfy in the new situation.
then, once everyone has adjusted i would try for a baby.
i'm sure it has to be hard to be so in love with your new partner but hold back a little b/c of your kids....
just think about it and if you guys are sure it's right for you, then go for it!
take care.
2006-08-09 16:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have kids, he already has 1 kid. If I were you, I would wait until I got married, only to be sure that the next child between the both of you, gets to have both of you in their lives. Look, you already aren't with the father of your 2 kids, he isn't with the mother of his 1 child, do you really want to do this to another child? Waiting would be best I believe.
2006-08-09 16:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be to everyone's best interest that you get married first especially there are children in the picture...you do not want to risk having another child with a man and he decides he does not want to be around. You have to look at those factors...children suffer the most when conceived out of wedlock.
2006-08-09 16:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pass that stage so why not? You have 2 he have 1, go for it.
2006-08-09 20:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are married, you don't want your kids thinking you only got married cause you got prego
2006-08-09 17:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you feel is right for you, your fiance and your kids
2006-08-09 16:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by theatrevenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a commitment to one another before you involve another helpless little person into the mix
2006-08-09 16:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this. IT'S WRONG. It's not fair to the kid, it's not fair to you, etc.
2006-08-09 16:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋